atthebeachclub
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This is a non-trivial amount of money you are bringing in annually to be able to do all this, even if you are exceptional at keeping your costs low so you can fund this level of savings.fully fund my 401, Roth, HSA and 529 plans for grandchildren
You must understand that the majority of people in the US do not have this amount of money coming into their possession annually, and never will have this amount of money coming in, no matter their ability (or lack thereof) to delay gratification.
It may be helpful to look to see what percentile your income falls into within the country to recognize you are earning much more than most. And also recognize that other people may make different decisions about these things, and they aren’t always incorrect even if not always financially optimal.
I say this as someone who does very well myself, but I recognize there are still lifestyles that will always be out of reach for me, and I also know my usually frugal lifestyle (outside of some Disney spend) is out of reach for many as well.
We all have to decide what matters to us. I used to save and save and save. We never vacationed. My house is paid off. I have a very healthy HSA and 401k balance. And then out of nowhere, I suddenly almost died one year. I’m well now, thankfully; it was a total random type thing and I probably delayed medical care longer than I should have.
My kids are young. I realized I didn’t want to suddenly leave them with few family memories if something happened. I adjusted my savings to prioritize making great memories with my family, because it turns out that is also important. That’s why we have DVC (all resale, no loans). It makes me take vacations we love. And I think that’s worth a little less in my 401k, to me. I no longer max it out. My 529s could be better; I am probably going to have to cash flow a lot of college and emphasize scholarships and other money saving opportunities. I am still ahead of the game though, and feeling ok about it all. It’s a marathon, not a sprint.
But that’s just my personal take on balancing the present with the future.