Joining in! Sorry it took me so long.
First off, I noticed in your sigg you are celebrating your 2s today. (2 months, 2 weeks, 2 days!

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Lilian is so cute! She looks really excited for the trip. How sweet of Becky and Brent to send her a postcard.
Here's help with your DHS dilema.
Cape May dinner- We did this countless times when we lived in Orlando and then we did it every trip for years. Very good and lots of choices! You'll still like it even if you aren't big buffet people.
Hollywood Vine (or something close, or very far from that)- We did this for dinner on 4th of July a few years ago. We were very impressed with it. There's so much food.
Sorry, I probably didn't help you get rid of anything. Maybe Sci-fi? I think Lilian will enjoy eating in a car. Or if you don't do a sit down at DHS Pizza Planet is one of our favorite CSs. They even have some arcade games that are free that go non-stop.
Favorite rides:
Epcot- Soarin' is our must do. Actually, it's our must do 3 times.
Figment, Turtle talk, and Nemo are all fun for Lilian and they don't have long lines.
We missed Illuminations in November but saw it from the boardwalk almost every night during our couples' trip. Make sure you watch it from the Mexico side of WS. The Canada side has way too much smoke. We watch it from Mexico every trip and then we do the Donald Duck ride and Maelstorm with out a wait before going to FW for EMH!
Magic Kingdom- So hard!!!
Haunted Mansion and I'm going to say Buzz but there are so many great things.
Peter Pan, Pooh, IASW, Splash... I could go on and on. So many great things. If you want I could help you with your raid plan for this park. We get everything done here with it.
DHS- Toy Story Mania and the drawing class.
AK- Safari and I'd say Dinosaur for the rest of the family.
I think Amy will be getting some pins for her birthday! She LOVES to pin trade. She has about 3 that she won't trade and the rest she exchanges every 5 minutes. Emily loves all her pins so I think I'm going to get her some junk ones to trade.
Snacks-
Epcot- Sunshine Seasons (in the land) has great food! It's my favorite CS!!! Also it's a great CS for the DP. The strawberry shortcake and chocolate cake our delishous and make a great snack credit.
You can't go wrong with a Mickey icecream bar.
MK- A lot of disers sware by the dole whip. I've never had one (have to fix that, right?) but I'm looking forward to trying it.
DHS- Starring rolls everyone likes the cupcakes there.
Also you can get a popcorn bucket. They're $4.50, everyone can snack on it all day, and they you have a nice sovie.
Congrats on being paid in full.
Can't wait to see your countdown calendar and autograph book. I need to make a new one of both soon. I started a Disney drawer and I keep buying things to put in it and I just made a new trip notebook. A new trip is on the horizon.

Have a great day!