okay, so i finally read this over the course of a couple days, so i've forgotten most of what i wanted to comment on
I had the UG, so i used that site to get the crowd predictions. I also used that to get a general idea of how long i thought we would spend for each ride/attraction. (both for waiting and for the actual ride). I then used the suggestions as to which areas or specific rides got really busy and just went on my own from there, trying to minimize backtracking. I took my list of must-do's and hope-to-do's and actually threw them in a schedule.
dumbo 9
tea cups 945
philharmagic 1015
snow white 1100
that sort of thing. i did my best to have a want mixed in every few items. i basically did this so that i could somewhat know where i stood throughout the day. i didn't stick to an order, really more stuck to an area. but that way, if it was 1100 and i was just now getting started in fantasyland, i would know to skip snow white if i was going to make it to lunch and the parade.
when we went in oct/nov, the crowds were low- and it was
MNSSHP and free dining and F&W. for the most part each ride or attraction took no where near my guestimates- but that extra time allowed for character visits, a million potty breaks, etc.
i haven't heard you mention this, but i hope that you are bringing a stroller for your sweet dd. maya was 4 last year when we went, and we would basically force her into the stroller any time we had a good walk. i promise it made all the difference in the world in her being able to handle all those long days.
maelstrom- as a child (7-10yrs) this was a ride that freaked me out. it wasn't because of the troll, there was little dip, and it was dark so you couldn't anticipate it, and it always freaked me out. now my kids had no problem with it, so i don't know.
now for my top ten.....
1. MAKING A RESERVATION!!! (most important, because although dh agrees
to go back, we haven't agreed on when yet- no time is too soon for me)
2. exploring the parks as a family (when we went it was with extended family- while fun, it will just be different just us)
3. Riding TOT with Maya- my mom talked her out of it and i can't wait to
ride it with her.
4. everything with James- it was great to see what amazed him as an infant,
but i also can't wait to see what is now important as a toddler to him-
especially since he'll probably remember it this time LOL
5. redo of arrival day- after missing the whole arrival day last time, i can't
wait to do what i was going to do that day. stuff myself silly at Ohana's
and watch wishes from the Poly beach
6. Minnie's bake shop cookies. ooohhh, i dream about these things. they are
big enough for the whole family to share one. and oh that chocolately
goodness. i forget the name of my favorite flavor, but at the very end
they even throw on a few sugar crystals.
7. food & wine/ MNSSHP. no clue when ew are going back, but i know i want
to do both of these again.
8. Space mountain- i have never ridden this- i was scared of this as a child,
last year it was closed.
9. shopping! need i say more
10. the parades. these are the kids absolute faves, so i can't wait to see
them again.