well if I was forced to have a massage, I wouldn't turn it down either!!!

We have had many family vacations mostly with all six of us and we have taken many business trip along with DH with the little ones, but this is one of the biggies! Your DD and mine should get along great. My DD willbe 4 in April. My son is only 11 mo older than DD so he will be tagging along too but he doesn't quite so the princesses in the same light.
He would rather see goffy or captain hook.
I see you are from California. DH has a conference next summer in San Diego that we will likely go to! We have been there before and liked it. DS really liked
legoland. He was 2 1/2 at the time.