Hey Karen,
Thank you so much for your offer. We could use any tips you'd like to pass along about DL/DCA. I have only visited DL once about 15 years ago for a day trip and the rest of my family has never been. We are planning 3 or 4 days in San Diego and 6 days in Anaheim (5 at the parks and 1 travel day). We are meeting up with another family (friends my husband met through work but the rest of us haven't met them) which I have never done before so I am hopeful that all will work out well. I have been corresponding via email with the mother/wife of the group and we are getting along well so far. She doesn't seem to understand my overly compulsive planning but then most people don't!
We will be there when POTC/BB and SW are predicted to be closed which is a BIG bummer but at least we'll get to see HHM (we are planning to travel October 20 or 21 through 30). We could use some tips on how to best see the attractions and on places to eat. I received my DL books this week and have skimmed through them - they don't seem to offer the level of detail that I like

but that is not entirely unexpected. I want menus and specifics on characters etc. and that seems to be something I have only found online. So if you know any good family-friendly places we should try I would love to hear about them.
We are planning to do the Fantasmic Dessert Buffet - hopefully on the balcony if I am lucky and get through quickly. I know this will be a big splurge but I really want to do it since waiting for a good seat with 4 small kids just sounds torturous plus there is chocolate involved so it must be the right choice!
We are staying at the HoJo in a suite. We really wanted to stay at the GC or DLH but our travelmates were not into that so we compromised with the HoJo so we could all at least be in the same hotel. HoJo's has promised to put our rooms as close as possible so hopefully they will follow through with that.
We don't have a reservation in San Diego yet - any suggestions? We really like either a "suite" type room with a completely separate bedroom area or two connecting rooms so that the kids can nap/go to bed early and we can stay up a while. I haven't done much looking there yet - that is something I need to get to. We are planning to visit the zoo and
Legoland and Balboa park. Anything else you can recommend we make time for? Feel free to post here or PM or email me if you'd prefer for any of this info.
I would love to meet up with you while we are there. I seldom get the opportunity to meet other DISers and since we'll be fellow cruisers it would be great to meet you in advance. As we get closer, let's try to plan a get-together!!
Well now I am running late for getting DD to VBS so I had better get off the computer. I'll check back in later to see what else in going on here!