Ashley Marie
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- Jan 2, 2011
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MinnieFan4ever said:We have left our daughter at home with Grandma/Grandpa several times for vacation. The first was when she was 6 months. Was is hard for me, YES! Was it hard for her, NO!!! She was just fine even happy with Grandma. We were gone for 6 nights Night 3 was the hardest for me, then it was, we get to see her in 2 days. Then we get to see her in 1 day. Then we were home Everyone was happy, healthy and great! She is very used to stay with both sets of grandparents. I truely believe that it was harder for me than it was for her.
I'm all about couples taking time. When there is more concern over decorating a child for a holiday which means nothing to them while justifying taking a week away from them it sounds more like an episode of teen mom than of two people committing to a small person they chose to have. If he is pushing her into this choice it is even more sad. Sure what husband or partner doesn't want easy carefree time with their wife and no kids. But maturity says it isn't all about them. And that there is a time and place.