First of all, CONGRATS on your pregnancy!
You asked about names one did not choose....
My 1st (successful) pregnancy resulted in our DD6, whose name is
Eden Allyssa. DH allowed me to name her (and our second success- our son) as I believe he had complete trust in my decision - his only request was no "juniors" (and DH has a nice name). My other choice was Julia Ann, or I could have combined the 2 into Julianne, Katherine (never got around to a middle name on that one), and I liked Meadow, but it did not sound right with our last name. I wanted a cool sounding name that was original and not popular, and did not sound too "girly-girl", which is why I went with the name I choose. Our DD loves her name and I have yet to come across another with her name, neither in her school (K thru grade 8), nor in our pediatrician's office.
When DS4 came along 2 1/2 years later, his name was already chosen (again by me) as it was my name for #1 had she been a boy. His name is
Gage William, and yes, I am a Stephen King fan. Again, I did not wish to name him something too common - especially since his sister did not have a common name. Now I also liked Nathaniel (we would have called him "Nate" for short), and Jack - so if I had 2 boys, one would have been Gage and the other something else......
Overall, I am (extremely) pleased to have one of each (boy and girl), and we are DONE so no more name games for us. I liked the names I chose and so does DH - as do the children themselves, so I feel I did allright. I do not care for my name and never did (my parents obviously liked it
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), so I just hoped that whatever I choose, my children would like their names. It never really bothered me if others did not like the names since I didn't neccesarily agree with some choices that others have named their children, so whatever you decide, just be sure that you and your DH agree on it.
Good luck and have a healthy pregnancy!!!