1. I agree. Just caught in the middle because I am the one she is texting.
2. The arrangements were for her to keep the kids until he got home from work. I only got them so it would make things easier.
3. Show choir is a group thing. Is it fair to dd to skip her competition though? I felt like it wasn't. --not meaning to be snarky, just asking.
I didn't mean for your dd to skip show choir. I asked if you can miss it. I haven't had a child do show choir. It sounds like a group activity so there should be other parents who can take dd for a competition. My experience with travel sports is that it's routine for parents over the course of 2-3 month season to miss games and tournaments, and to send their child with another family.
Now if you return and say that you have to be at every minute of every competition, we'll picture you as one of those Dance Moms on the Lifetime show.