I'm not even single and I am amazed at the things married men say and have said to me! Even a deacon from my church and then a husband of a client too! Geez...the 2nd guy was also a client but I told him to go somewhere else and get his haircut. Both of these men seem like their in happy marriages. I am very friendly with both of their wives. But I'm supposing you know his wife? I mean, who'd let their kid go on a date with a strange woman and their husband? In fact, if my husband called his girl friend "love" and said he was going on a "date" with her, I might push our child on them to "go on the date." The OP said "X" was a person of her same sex. So, no, not a man. I do what someone stated on page one. I would not speak my husband about it just yet. I'd lay low and snoop a bit first. Because either way, you will receive the same type of answer--"nothings going on"--whether that's the truth or a lie. If it is a lie, it is straight from the "Cheater's Handbook 101". I just went through an affair with my sister and her dh--all the lies and deceit that go with it. Along with the snooping. I'm a dang good snooper, let me tell ya!