Buckalew11
2013 1/2 Marathon Finisher!!! Woohoo!!
- Joined
- Oct 15, 2004
Can't edit on phone. I believed the explanations....which were lies.
If I were the spouse of either party I would not be ok w/this exchange.
However, being single I'm SHOCKED w/some of the things my married friends say to me. People I think are happy.
I don't get it.,
I'm not even single and I am amazed at the things married men say and have said to me! Even a deacon from my church and then a husband of a client too! Geez...the 2nd guy was also a client but I told him to go somewhere else and get his haircut. Both of these men seem like their in happy marriages. I am very friendly with both of their wives.
I think too many people look for "evil" in too many things...
I have multiple married friends of both genders.
My best friend is a guy who is married. I have called him love the whole time I have known him. We go on "dates" all the time... often with his young child. So yes, our texts would look like that as well.
I have another male friend who is in a committed relationship who calls me "love". Again, he always has.
So, I can say with quite a bit of experience that the terms "love" and "date" can have different meanings.
But I'm supposing you know his wife? I mean, who'd let their kid go on a date with a strange woman and their husband? In fact, if my husband called his girl friend "love" and said he was going on a "date" with her, I might push our child on them to "go on the date."
Maybe I missed it, I just read through this fast. Is X a man or woman? When I first read it, I pictured a man.
The OP said "X" was a person of her same sex. So, no, not a man.
I do what someone stated on page one. I would not speak my husband about it just yet. I'd lay low and snoop a bit first. Because either way, you will receive the same type of answer--"nothings going on"--whether that's the truth or a lie. If it is a lie, it is straight from the "Cheater's Handbook 101".
I just went through an affair with my sister and her dh--all the lies and deceit that go with it. Along with the snooping. I'm a dang good snooper, let me tell ya!