GAIL HAYDEN, I've seen you post before about your allergies to perfume, and I've been tempted to reply, but I usually try to avoid disagreements on the boards. It's just so ironic. I am also very allergic to perfume, but I also react to cigarette smoke, cleaning solvents, pesticides, etc., in fact, most chemicals. I had long term, low level exposure to some pesticides at work, and it made me very sick. The very first thing I reacted to was cigarette smoke. I would cough my head off, get horrible headaches, then eventually a low-grade fever and swollen glands. It affected me mentally as well as physically. Let's just say I was very irritable.
The second thing I started reacting to was fragrance. I quickly learned that not all fragrance bothered me, just the chemical based ones (almost all of them, especially Calvin Klein!). If it's natural fragrance, I'm OK. Here's the reason they bothered me: the manufacturers create them from chemicals, including a number of addictive chemicals that are the same ones added to nicotine. It's what keeps people buying their product, and wearing more and more of it over time (just like cigarettes). I wish I could tell you where to find this information (short term memory loss), but I think it's still out there. My Dr. told me that you can be loading up on all sorts of chemicals (food additives, dry cleaning solvent, fabric softener, etc, etc), and only a few will cause an immediate reaction, but they are all doing the same thing to your body if you are sensitive. And eventually, you will react to them all. It will be interesting to see what you have to say about smoking when your body begins to react to it the same way it does to fragrance.
I've gotten better, as you suggested, by avoidance. Lots of it, pretty much a hermit for quite a while.
I had to take my daughter to a dance convention in Las Vegas last week. Vegas is the most unhealthy city on the planet, IMHO. I got a non-smoking room, was only in crowds for as short of time as possible, and avoided the casinos. Last Saturday, I decided to take my daughter and a friend to an OUTDOOR concert. I'm not sure what I was thinking. It was at the Beach at Mandalay Bay. We got there early, marked a spot with our towels on the beach, and the girls went to wade in the pool. Gorgeous setting. During the concert, they stayed right in front of the band. I stayed on the towels, so they would know where I was if they needed me. Meanwhile, the whole beach filled up, and I had several chain smokers around me (all of them young, attractive women, why is that?). A couple did blow their smoke away from me at my request, but I had a headache that lasted a full day after, and coughed quite a bit that night. I'm still coughing today, three days later.
By the way, you Febreze lovers. If you have anyone with allergies in your family, please remember that all you're doing is spraying perfumes into the air when you use it.
And my apologies to the OP. Obviously, I don't ask for smoking rooms, but was given one once on check-in at BWV. They found us a NS studio for the night until they could get us the reserved NS 1 BR. I didn't want to be sick for the rest of the trip.