Rope drop more than anything else, no matter how hard you may have to scrape the family out of bed (and I totally get the cranky morning husband bit), will give you the best attraction time of your whole day, along with judicious use of Fastpasses. You can't get that time back or make it up on a very crowded day if you miss it, and speaking from experience, you may regret the rest of your day because of it. You can rest midday and build your energy back up for dealing with the evening crowds. If anything, I would do rope drop, lunch counter service and take an afternoon break, and then reserve table service dinners. DL will be slammed with people for the new fireworks, parade, and the last Fantasmic! performances for 18 months. If you stay for those, counter service will be slammed, probably much more crowded than at lunch. (Last Halloween, I remember one painful, half-hour long line just to get into Plaza Inn.) The bottom line is if you get there early, early, early no matter what, you'll have far fewer regrets when the crowds swell in the afternoon/evening, and you'll feel a lot more at ease going slower due to the crowding.