I'm sorry the discussion is confusing you.
You might want to message Sequin and Guthrie families. As what I heard last in the FB group they are dropping out of the original group and will be in the group with 4 cabins participating at this time.
Many folks in the FB group that are participating in this FE want to combine the two as there are only two new families in that group. (Actually one, since one family has been in the FE since just after the cut-off date) Two of us are participating with them so it isn't a two cabin group.
What we had decided in the very beginning was that we would have a 20 cabin cut-off or a cut-off date. We didn't reach the 20 cabins by Nov. 1st. We had a family join just after that and it was agreed that was okay. A new to cruising family joined our FE (not knowing they were late) making our group 20 or 21?
I totally understand that many have had their gifts done and don't want to do anymore. Maybe those of us that are bringing extra could go ahead and join the second list if want to make that group more fun for them. I don't know...
I just want everyone to be happy, happy, happy and remember this is supposed to be fun!