Just to beat a dead horse some more.... thought I'd add my 2 cents. I agree that it is VERY important for you to spend some alone time as a couple. As a Christian SAHM myself, one of the things I see alot of couples struggle with is remembering that if the marriage portion of the family foundation is not strong, the children will suffer from that too. That said, I'd still reconsider doing the 14 day w/out the kids. I have cruised DCL before, and, I think it would be hard to be on such a family oriented cruise without the kids and not find yourself thinking five times every day that you wished one of the kids could see this or that. Personally, I would find a more adults only type vacation that you can't do with the kids for your anniversary trip and save your disney dollars for trips with the kids. For the money, you could easily do an incredibly romantic week in Paris without the kids on your actual tenth anniversary. Strolling through the Louvre looking at historical masterpieces is not a great time with 4 and 6 year old boys!