Gumbo4x4
Note to the ladies who forgot to
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2012
She's been permit eligible for 14 months & has actually had one since February. She isn't fast, nor has she hit anything (yet). But, she just has no clue.
Which way do I turn?
Which lane should I get in?
Do I have to stop?
Is it okay to go?
The kicker was today. We're approaching an intersection, needing to turn left. Light is green, but no green turn arrow, oncoming green truck with the right of way.
DD - which lane?
Me - the left turn lane (pointing)
DD - should I wait?
Me - just duck in behind the green truck
What happens instead? She cuts in front of the green truck barreling at us at about 50 MPH. And not deliberately. She does it slowly so as to be in his direct path for the longest possible time. Realizing her mistake & that there was still time to correct it, I scream "BEHIND THE TRUCK, BEHIND THE TRUCK!!!". But, she kept turning into his path. Thankfully, the pickup driver recognized the issue & was hard on his brakes. And when I realized we were too far gone to correct, I screamed "GO!". DD did respond to this, gassed it hard, and managed to get us out of the intersection alive.
I should note that as we approached the intersection, the green truck was far enough away that a more experienced & more aggressive driver could have easily and safely cut in front of the truck. But, not the way she tried it, and that's why I told her to go behind him.
This is a smart kid, good at math, physics, bowling, shooting. But, the trajectory of a car escapes her. And the constant questions about the most basic things say it's just not sinking in. Obviously, more practice (if we live through it) will help. But, her development is painfully slow. Professional help in the form of drivers ed is only available in Summer. Not getting a license really isn't an option. We live in a rural area with zero public transportation. Thankfully, she's one of the oldest in her class, so her friends are all without licenses as well (for now). But, we need to get her better - much better - and now.
Her basic operation of the car is fine. But, she needs to handle traffic & intersections better. Would something like an online driving simulator maybe help? Other ideas? Help!
Which way do I turn?
Which lane should I get in?
Do I have to stop?
Is it okay to go?
The kicker was today. We're approaching an intersection, needing to turn left. Light is green, but no green turn arrow, oncoming green truck with the right of way.
DD - which lane?
Me - the left turn lane (pointing)
DD - should I wait?
Me - just duck in behind the green truck
What happens instead? She cuts in front of the green truck barreling at us at about 50 MPH. And not deliberately. She does it slowly so as to be in his direct path for the longest possible time. Realizing her mistake & that there was still time to correct it, I scream "BEHIND THE TRUCK, BEHIND THE TRUCK!!!". But, she kept turning into his path. Thankfully, the pickup driver recognized the issue & was hard on his brakes. And when I realized we were too far gone to correct, I screamed "GO!". DD did respond to this, gassed it hard, and managed to get us out of the intersection alive.
I should note that as we approached the intersection, the green truck was far enough away that a more experienced & more aggressive driver could have easily and safely cut in front of the truck. But, not the way she tried it, and that's why I told her to go behind him.
This is a smart kid, good at math, physics, bowling, shooting. But, the trajectory of a car escapes her. And the constant questions about the most basic things say it's just not sinking in. Obviously, more practice (if we live through it) will help. But, her development is painfully slow. Professional help in the form of drivers ed is only available in Summer. Not getting a license really isn't an option. We live in a rural area with zero public transportation. Thankfully, she's one of the oldest in her class, so her friends are all without licenses as well (for now). But, we need to get her better - much better - and now.
Her basic operation of the car is fine. But, she needs to handle traffic & intersections better. Would something like an online driving simulator maybe help? Other ideas? Help!