Hello, OP here.
For those wondering, the man in question is 41. Way old enough to know better.
Not that into me...I'm sure this is a possibility and even a probability. Though it is strange, in the days after our first date, I received a barage of texts from him, everything from good morning to when can we get together again? So I think maybe he was into me, at least at first...I don't think I responded in any way that would change that, but I am wondering now if maybe he has a girlfriend or, even worse, a wife.
In any case, I ignored his first apology text for a day, then heard back from him the next day, at about 6:50 in the morning...he knows I am on my way to work at about that time, saying "Hey sweety, good morning, did you get my text?" SO I was cordial and said yes, and that I hoped his sister was doing better. So of of course then he wanted to get together again, that night, but I told him I had plans...which was true.
I'm sure I haven't heard the last from him, but Im still looking. For other guys, I mean.
This seems so inappropriate that I'd be tempted to make a date, not show up, and text him a day or so later. I would have ignored him, but good grief he deserves to be messed with! He's either the dumbest guy on the planet or he's specifically looking for someone who is willing to be walked on. Kind of scary actually.