I would stick with one of the onsite hotels. You can't beat the location the Grand California. You are literally inside California Adventure. I know prices are crazy right now. I think when the novelty of Carsland wears off they will bring back the discounts. If your looking at offsite hotels check out the Embassy Suites at Disneyland. Great free cooked to order breakfast. Free cocktails from 5-7. Not just beer and wine, but a full bar. You also get a nice big suite.
Thanks so much for the recommendation KOOK! I like the idea of GC = but I hear the pricing is crazy...however, perhaps it would be comparable to what I am used to spending for BC/ or AKL or even POLY CL?? What do you think of Disney Land HOtel?? I am almost more smitten by the theming there (that monorail slide looks amazing!) than the GC?? any thoughts between the 2?? also DLH has been recently renovated/ new rooms is always a big plus!!! Thanks for the off site recommendation too....I think I have decided if I can at all swing it , it will be onsite though!