I am well within my rights to go back to Canada now, but I wouldn't be after the baby was born - and once he is born, I might need to come back with the baby to contend custody if necessary. That's something my attorney is looking into. . .
. . . If not, I have to start looking for train fares - because I am definitely going back.
I'm also leaving money to pay for cat food, litter, etc. It's eating into the money I've set aside, but I think this is the best legal option to cover all my bases.
Glad you are okay. Thanks for updating us.
However, you do NOT owe any of us an update.
I'm glad you are looking for ways to get back to Canada. I wanted to say after you posted that your OB/GYN didn't want you to fly, that you
should rent a car or get on a train & head right up the coast to Canada. Even if its not your final destination, your mom can meet you in Canada, and least you'd be across the border. This way, if the baby arrives early, while you are still traveling, you both are on the of the side of the border.
Going straight up the coast, by car, it would be about a 3-4 day trip. Perhaps your mom can fly down to drive with you.
As for the cats, arrange to have a friend temporarily keep them. Or look into a foster agency. this way they will be out of DH's control. Someone can always ship the cats to Canada later when you get settled. If DH asks about the cars, all you have to say is that you "took" the cats. No need to explain to him where they are, or that they aren't going to Canada with you at this time.
Last, I would suggest NOT telling DH the day you are leaving. You don't want an altercation with him, in the house alone, while you are trying to leave, and he is blocking your ability to get out of the house or fighting you for the luggage. Many bad "Movies of the Week," start out with the DH fighting the wife from leaving, accidentally knocking her down, etc. and she ends up giving birth early, (in the U.S.,) or losing the baby.
The day you go, just go, when he is out of the house or at work. Or have a friend there with you.
Good luck and safe journey to you and your baby.