Pros of staying there: more space in room, feels more like "home" than a hotel room, balcony (hopefully with a nice view), kitchen & sofa in room, less walking at resort, can prepare inexpensive breakfasts, easy access to pools, can explore other parts of Orlando if I choose, & quick driving time from resort to parks.
You left out free washer and dryer in the room. Don't laugh at that benefit until you complete your first trip with a washer/dryer. Even if you're alone, at a minimum it means going home with a suitcase full of clean clothes.
Cons: Dealing with parking pass/time share sales people
No big deal. Just understand that anything they ask you to do is a sales presentation by another name -- tour, survey, "welcome gifts" etc, etc. Just tell the body snatchers at the parking pass desk that you are on a solo trip, can't buy anything even if you wanted to, etc. Then tell them no. If they keep after you, simply walk away. The parking pass is a scam -- it's not needed, does not get you through the guard gate, and we never display a parking pass at any Wyndham resort.
When you get to your room, unplug the phone. Anyone you want to talk to has your cell. Also, if a sales weasel comes to your door with "welcome gifts," say no and close the door. If you let them in, they will NOT leave.
worried about quality of room (furnishings, wear & tear, etc)
the room will be fine. You can get wear and tear in any room, even 5 star luxury hotels.
not sure if I'll want to drive myself everywhere
Driving is a little confusing the first day or two. After that, it's a breeze. I can be
parked at any theme park in less than 15 minutes from Bonnet Creek; we always drive everywhere, even when we stay onsite.
You have to watch the signs carefully. There are multiple signs for each exit, but each destination will only be mentioned once -- kinda like airline listings coming into an airport. Only Disney destinations will be mentioned, so you'll have to look for the Downtown Disney exit coming home.
Am I missing anything on my pros & cons lists?
Pro for CSR/con for WBC -- daily housekeeping.
I personally don't get daily housekeeping at home, so I'm okay with not having it on vacation. I'm also not a big fan of having housekeepers in my room much anyway, and tend to leave the "Do not disturb" sign up just to keep them away.