Welcome back, BestDadEver, haven't seen you in awhile! For what it's worth, they're not really complaints. Speaking for myself, I am on this forum because I own DVC, I love DVC and I try to help others learn more about it. The problem is that the "guides" (read: salespeople) only tell one side of the story. I feel that it's important to present the other side that contains the realities of owning DVC. You may perceive that as negative or complaining, but really it's just being honest. As far as forcing my opinion on others, if I read something that is misleading or factually inaccurate, I am going to dispute it whenever it comes up. Not for the sake of arguing, but for the sake of the "lurkers" who are reading to gain information without ever speaking up. There is a hidden audience for every post, and I think that's important to keep in mind.
With regards to the negatives you mentioned above, I think you're misinterpreting things a bit. The comments about furniture and fixtures being worn and broken were in regards to BLT, where the consensus is that it was put together on the cheap, and not AKV. I don't recall anyone saying anything negative about the rooms in AKV, as they are absolutely beautiful. Also, I think you misunderstood the "negatives" about the booking situation as well, as AKV is one of the three easiest resorts to get into at 7 months. The advice that was given was that owners needed the 11 month advantage in order to book value studios and Grande Villas at AKV. At any resort, the 1 BR units are the last to book, value or otherwise.
Please know that when people seem to be "negative" it's actually an attempt to point out the realities and potential pitfalls of DVC. It's really not an attempt to argue. I hope you have a wonderful vacation.