As you can see by my number of posts that I do not use this board or any other for that matter very often. I just wanted some basic info that I could not find in my searches so I had to pose my own question. It has been a tough enough time for me lately in my life, I don't need to add being talked down to by total strangers. But I won't let a few rotten apples spoil the bushel. I thank the people that were kind and understanding on here and that took the time to give me some relevant and unbiased info and advice.
Look, we all know what works best for our kids and can tell when they are happy and when they are not. I would never stick my kid in a seat or stroller or wrap they hated just because it's easier for me. Their happiness comes first. Why else would I drag my broken body all around Disney if not for them! My dream vacation right now would be sitting on a beach sipping a daquiri but that is not to be. Anyway, my baby loves to be facing me in the stroller and has hated the regular 'city mini' type of jogging stroller and the Graco type stroller I have at home as he can't see me. As another poster said with their child, mine twists his head all around trying to see me and gets all fussy. He LOVES being in the infant car seat and looking right at me. In fact today I had to go to the doctor so I loaded him in the seat and in the few minutes it took me to get my older son's coat and boots on he was sound asleep and snoring. I'd say he likes it in there.
Besides the fact that he is comfy it in there, it works great for me. I don't have to wait for hubby to lift him out or risk sending my back into spasms by squatting or bending too low to get him out of a regular stroller. This one sits him almost at waist height so I can use more of my arms to lift him in and out frequently. We are still trying to work out the logistics of this trip for me with the pain I am in. I refuse to take pain meds as I am breast feeding so I am dealing with the pain as best I can. I haven't had a vacation for a very long time and now have a chance to do Disney almost for free. Yes it's not a ideal time physically for me to go, and would be better if the kids were older maybe so they will remember more of it. However, this is a rare opportunity to take this trip and I am willing to suffer any physical pain it will cause me just to see that one moment that my toddler sees Buzz Lightyear for the first time or rides on Dumbo.
Also, I don't even know if I can get on a lot of rides as I can't really lift my right leg very high. I have to climb stairs using my left leg one step at a time to limit the amount of times my back spasms or for safety while carrying my baby. I am picturing a lot of rides where I have to climb in like Dumbo I will not be able to get into whereas one step up onto a carousel platform should be fine. Another matter is my toddler is a 'runner'. The minute you let go of his hand, he is trying to run or jump or do something else daredevil like so he will have to wear a harness for safety I think. We say in football terms that he needs 'man to man coverage!' You can't take your eye off him for a second or he will be taking a swim in the Its a Small World moat! I don't know how we would manage getting on rides with my husband having to hold both kids while I try to clamber in without falling. We have tried the wrap on dh and I think because he has a belly it sits my baby in there really weird and they both hate it. DS doesn't like the back carrier ones as he can't see our faces as easily and you obviously can't go on a ride with that type..you'd have to take it off every time. So I have in my head that I really won't get on much of anything except maybe the monorail or some of the movie/live theatre type attractions. I have to look at each ride individually for my needs/abilities. My enjoyment on this trip will have to come mostly from watching from the sidelines and hopefully getting some nice pictures and memories.