I was the same way about the MK shoot and having my hair done! I hate paying twice (we were originally going to do the MK shoot the morning of our VR, but Disney rescheduled us
) but my hair is hopeless in Florida, so I need a professional, LOL! I have super-sensitive skin so I'm going to do my own makeup (but will practice LOTS beforehand!). I'm also using Beaute Speciale.
For buffet vs. plated ... our group is about the same size as yours. We are doing a brunch buffet because we are all picky eaters and I didn't want to restrict everyone to just a couple of choices. This way they can choose whatever their hearts desire and eat as much (or as little) as they like.
I know a lot of people don't like buffets, but for picky eaters, I think they are the way to go!
Plus, they tend to be less expensive than plated meals.