They might even still be friendly to this day...
Jodi & Kate still friendly? After the RadarOnline interviews?
maybe.
but, I highly doubt it.
They might even still be friendly to this day...
I just finished watching the reairing of last nights show, I missed it last night. I was struck with how much regret that kate had in regards to their relationship. I have been there myself in her shoes wishing I wasn't the way I was and hoping to make it through and make things better with someone that really doesn't seem t want to work things out with yuu. She just seemed sad to me about the whole mess and powerless.
Jon seems to have already have checked out of the whole thing. He just struck me as being all done and i was wondering if he was contracted to be on the shw this season and that is the only real reason he was there? He seemed bitter about the whole thing and like he wanted to get the point across that this was between him and kate and that he still intended to be a part of things with the kids no matter what. But he seemed disengaged even with the kids at the party. That could of had to do with being there with Kate which was clear to me je didn't want to be.
My marriage ultimately survived with mistakes made on both of our parts. I am hoping that theits can too.I just hope jon can realize that this might be worth working on not just for the kids but bor him and kate as well. He seems to hold all the cards in the deck right now and Kate just strikes me as efeated and remorseful, very different from what I have seen from the marathon over the weekend. I know she said she was angry but to me it seemed like jon was the angry one.
Jodi & Kate still friendly? After the RadarOnline interviews?
maybe.
but, I highly doubt it.
You've been around this thread long enough to know we hash out the details. You yourself pointed out the "small stuff" detail about gum on planes.
Just because someone does you favors doesn't mean you aren't allowed to be upset. Have you never overreacted about something that was really nothing? Has someone who does nice things for you never made you mad? Think of something that only kind of bugs you. Multiply it by eight.
I thought many of these same thoughts, Monique. If Kate really does want to work it out and Jon is already checked out, it is too sad. If the roles were reversed, I'd feel the same way. I'd like to see them work it out but something tells me they may not be able. And if they don't I think kate will be fine, in time. I think she is such a strong woman, determined and driven that she'll be fine.
Yeah I am not sure if it will work out, and I am not taking sides for either one of them. Mistakes of some sort or the other were made by both people. IT just seems that only one of them realize that at this time. Not blaming anyone just an observation.
We just started watching this about 6 months ago & the one thing that really bugged me about last night's show was when they were all sitting on the bench to take their family pic, as soon as Jon sat down, Kate said "take off your sunglasses" to him. She didn't ask him, she TOLD him to do it. DH & I have been married for 16+ years & I don't ever just TELL him to do anything. It's just not a nice way to speak to anyone. He doesn't do it to me either. Married couples have to have mutual respect for each other!
Has she been sassy like that throughout the entire show? I would think that with the issues they're having, she would at least make an attempt to be nice to him & treat him like a grown-up instead of ordering him around like a child?
Oh my...YES. The sunglasses comment was nothing. She has been downright cruel to him on many occasions.
Oh my...YES. The sunglasses comment was nothing. She has been downright cruel to him on many occasions.
I thought many of these same thoughts, Monique. If Kate really does want to work it out and Jon is already checked out, it is too sad. If the roles were reversed, I'd feel the same way. I'd like to see them work it out but something tells me they may not be able. And if they don't I think kate will be fine, in time. I think she is such a strong woman, determined and driven that she'll be fine.
Now, don't forget to add in the backhanded, passive-aggressive remarks he makes, as well.
I have no doubt that Kate will be fine and Jon will be fine. The kids...not so much.
Sounds like I should divorce my husband. I never knew how emotionally abused I was until reading these J&K threads. All the times he gets "sassy" with me for leaving the satellite radio in the car.
I guess that means it is okay for me to cheat on him.
Sounds like I should divorce my husband. I never knew how emotionally abused I was until reading these J&K threads. All the times he gets "sassy" with me for leaving the satellite radio in the car.
I guess that means it is okay for me to cheat on him.
Everyone is always saying how demanding and bossy Kate is and how bad she treats Jon, but in all fairness up until now Jon has wanted it. You can tell. You can tell Jon needs it and feeds off it. I believe in mutual respect and that a wife should never talk to her husband like that and vice versa, but I feel like Jon was really young when all of this started happening (twins at 23, sextuplets at 27) and he needed Kate's guidance and control. Kate just seems to take everything that's thrown at her and deal with it. She's focused and determined. And from what I've seen she's been the same way since they met, so this is nothing new for Jon. I think he just woke up and realized she's gone all the time, travelling, tanning and he's stuck at home with 8 kids and 2 dogs. Which as any stay at home mom would know, that can get tiring and monatenous, as much as you LOVE your kids, if you're seeing your spouse constantly leaving and experiencing all these things, you're gonna get tired of being home every day.
BUT there's no excuse for his actions. He knows he's on tv and he knows people are going to be watching his every move.. In my mind, he has given up.. He wants to live a little more. Which is sad but it is what it is, everyone is different.
But you can tell in old episodes that they were once very deep in love, and I truly hope someday he stumbles across one of those episodes and realizes how much he does love her and how amazing their life can be together.
They really need to take some time to be together and reconnect.
I wish them the best!
Sounds like I should divorce my husband. I never knew how emotionally abused I was until reading these J&K threads. All the times he gets "sassy" with me for leaving the satellite radio in the car.
I guess that means it is okay for me to cheat on him.