I was leaning towards patience...mainly because I need to have more with my daughter. She is at that age that she and I are beginning to battle. But, I think I will go with Embrace. I think that embodies a bit more. I will embrace the good times, the differences we all have and memories we make. If I can embrace the differneces, maybe I can keep my cool more with her and power through those trying times. And, I can embrace the good times with all three kids and my husband. The four of them are my main focus. I have noticed I try to spread myself out and be attentive to many...it takes me away from the most important ones in my life and that attention is not returned. So, just like some stop sending Christmas cards to those they don't receive one from in return, I am not paying as much attention to those that don't return it! That gives me more time and energy for my DH and 3 wonderful children!! Sorry so long-winded...I think it became something I needed to get off my chest!!