Young dating...

this is a little more toward the middle schoolers bc well the high schooler and college are are closer to marrage than middle school i mean really if you are in middle school are u gonna get married NOW? i say wait to date till later im still not thrilled about high shoolers but what is the point of it really? i keep going back to gettin married bc this world doesn't get married anymore! i read that ppl are now just living with eachother rather than getting married ih and their having kids! the only reason why im would date is to get married other than that it is a distraction

who said anything about marriage?!
i DO want to marry my current boyfriend (SOMEDAY!)
but the people i've dated before i had absolutely no desire to marry them or even be with them long-term.
sometimes little short flings are fun too.

how can you marry someone if you haven't "played the field" you'll never know what else is out there if you marry the only person you'v ever dated!
IMHO. :goodvibes
 
who said anything about marriage?!
i DO want to marry my current boyfriend (SOMEDAY!)
but the people i've dated before i had absolutely no desire to marry them or even be with them long-term.
sometimes little short flings are fun too.

how can you marry someone if you haven't "played the field" you'll never know what else is out there if you marry the only person you'v ever dated!
IMHO.

again i said my views are for mire like middle schoolers. im not saying dont date im saying wait till your older ( middler schoolers again) i just dont get y middle schoolers. tell me why middle schoolers date and i will un subscribe all of my posts on this thread
 
I had a "boyfriend" almost two years ago. We were "together" for a month and a half, during the summer. I think I saw him once during that time period, but, I talked to him every day. I loved talking to him. Our conversations were wonderful.

I loved him like a brother. Before we were "together," he was one of my best friends.

I will admit, my classmates did pressure us to "date" eachother. I wish I didn't listen to them. But I did.

Do I regret listening to them? Sometimes. My "ex" is still one of my better friends, but we argue a lot.
 
I never held his hand. I never kissed him. It just didn't seem right to me.

As for young dating:
I think a non-serious relationship is okay when both people are mature enough about it. I mean that they aren't exes within the first week of dating. I'm saying that they both actually like each other, and can see themselves as a couple for a few months.

I think a serious relationship is okay when both people know the consequences, have the mentality about it, and seriously, truly love eachother. They shouldn't have to pressure each other about it. Only when the time is right for the couple.
 

again i said my views are for mire like middle schoolers. im not saying dont date im saying wait till your older ( middler schoolers again) i just dont get y middle schoolers. tell me why middle schoolers date and i will un subscribe all of my posts on this thread

I'm not trying to say your opinions are wrong or get you to unsubscribe to this thread or anything!
I'm simply stating that I don't see what's wrong with people wanting to date someone, just for the sake of dating them, or because they like (not love) them.

Middle Schoolers date because they are physically attracted to one another.
They are going through puberty and exploring the concept of love and relationships.
They might be under the perception that they are in "love" because they have never expirienced anything like it before.

I dated boys in middle school because I thought they were cute and I liked the idea of having a boyfriend.
I don't see what's so wrong with that.
I knew I wasn't going to MARRY those boys, that thought was in the very back of my brain.

I honestly don't see the harm in dating in middle school, unless it escalades to a sexual level of course.
Other than that, I don't see the harm in having crushes and pursuing them.
I like the idea of crushes and getting rejected and dumped.
It builds character. :goodvibes

Again, I really am not trying to flame you or trample your opnions, I understand where you are coming from. I hope you can understand where I am coming from as well.
 
i am in awe that there is still some ppl in this world who dont cheat. KUDOS

My great-grandparents were married for over 60 years. They never cheated on eachother. Even when they were both in their 80s, and aging, one could still sense the love they had for eachother.
 
My great-grandparents were married for over 60 years. They never cheated on eachother. Even when they were both in their 80s, and aging, one could still sense the love they had for eachother.

how cute!! :cloud9:

my grandparents have known each other their whole lives and dated each other very early.
they have been married 55 years now :goodvibes
 
how cute!! :cloud9:

my grandparents have known each other their whole lives and dated each other very early.
they have been married 55 years now :goodvibes

Awww! Congrats to them!

My grandparents also got married early. I think my grandma was around 18. I'm not too sure, but I think they got married in '59. So, they were married for almost 40 years by the time my grandpa died.
 
I think that as long as they don't go "too far" (ya know what I mean), it's perfectly fine at about 7th or 8th grade.

I don't like those girls who ask a boy out on Monday and dump them on Wednesday. It's unbelievable that kids do that. If that's what all middle schoolers do, then they are obviously not ready for a serious relationship. There's the most popular girl who's been with the most popular guy for *gasp* approx. 7 months. But they do "break up" every week or so and then forgive each other the next day.

There are some really immature kids in our school. I'll get on the bus in the morning and be amazed at what I hear flying out of these kids mouths. They not only say curse words, but throw rude and unnessecary comments at one another. Eek.

I, personally, am in love. And I'm not talking about one of those cheesy boyfriend deals (more like scams) I've mentioned above. I think if I (or he) mustered up the courage to confront each other, we could really love each other (and I don't mean "you know what"). Like, I've seen some signs. He talks to me, and he's only "rude" around his friends. He gives me these weird stares in our Spanish class; I think that's his way of getting my attention. And golly, does it work! :) He's said hi to me numerous times in the hallway, and I've caught him sneaking some looks at me in gym class. So today I was proud of myself when he looked my way while I was hitting the win for us in volleyball. I want to tell him so bad, but it's so hard. Once I asked him why he gives me those looks, and he thought I was mad, so he was like, "I'm sorry" and I was like, "No no, I just wanna know why you look at me in Spanish" He started to laugh, I think that was a sign. He might have been laughing because he thinks I should know why he stares. And I do. Ah, love love love... :love:

Oh dear, I've turned this into my own Fairytale! :sad2: Carry on with your opinions, everyone! :)
I always hear rumors about "Oh so-and-so broke up with so-and-so!" 5 minutes later "Oh my gosh! They're back together!!" WHO CARES?!
 
Besides, how can you go on a "date" at 13 anyways? You can't drive. You can't take her out on a dinner. You can only hang out.
 
I started having 'dates' in 6th grade.
Just dates.
We didnt kiss, just held hands and hugged.
That's fine.
I didn't get my first kiss till my summer bf of 8th grade.
I didn't get my first real, long term, bf till this year. 9th grade.
 
Besides, how can you go on a "date" at 13 anyways? You can't drive. You can't take her out on a dinner. You can only hang out.

yeah i never went on a 'date' until i was like 15ish.
during elementary/middle school it was just like, hanging out at recess or playing outside after school lol.
 
??? i cant BELiEVE some of the ages you guys are saying!! High School??? 16years old??? People in my school (middle school 6-8 grade) date alll the time!! Im in 6th grade and had my first bf! Idk.. maybe its different in other parts of the country...:confused3
 
??? i cant BELiEVE some of the ages you guys are saying!! High School??? 16years old??? People in my school (middle school 6-8 grade) date alll the time!! Im in 6th grade and had my first bf! Idk.. maybe its different in other parts of the country...:confused3

I've described my current (and only) relationship. That is why I waited. I don't know a sixth grader who can tell me the same thing about her boyfriend. :confused3
 
??? i cant BELiEVE some of the ages you guys are saying!! High School??? 16years old??? People in my school (middle school 6-8 grade) date alll the time!! Im in 6th grade and had my first bf! Idk.. maybe its different in other parts of the country...:confused3

Do you think people in middle school can honestly understand what dating is about? Or think that they are mature enough to have a 'real' relationship? Or is it even right to call it a relationship.. lol... usually all they do is see each other at school.

Considering people usually marry (at the youngest) in their twenties, 11-14 years old is pretty young to have a relationship.
 
Do you think people in middle school can honestly understand what dating is about? Or think that they are mature enough to have a 'real' relationship? Or is it even right to call it a relationship.. lol... usually all they do is see each other at school.

Considering people usually marry (at the youngest) in their twenties, 11-14 years old is pretty young to have a relationship.


I completely understand what you are saying, but in defense of middler schoolers. They are just living in the moment.
They don't really know about real relationships and dating.
They are just exploring and testing the water. And having fun.

I'm not saying I condone children having sex or being sexual with one another.
I am just saying I understand that they are just growing up and they want to expirience new things. That's how I was like in middle school.
I learned alot of boys then.

And I'm not trying to be condesending towards younger people just because I'm older. I hope people are getting my point? :confused3
 
I've described my current (and only) relationship. That is why I waited. I don't know a sixth grader who can tell me the same thing about her boyfriend. :confused3

Actually.
My friend has been going out with the same guy since 7th grade.
Were in 9th grade now.
But thats an exception
 
Actually.
My friend has been going out with the same guy since 7th grade.
Were in 9th grade now.
But thats an exception

yeah I have a friend who has been dating her current boyfriend since grade 7....and we are in grade 12!!!
 


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