So our plans have changed quite a bit from my post just a few short hours ago....
I received a call from my friend who is joining us on the Disney portion of our trip and her daughter's boyfriend is going to fly in Friday and propose to her at
Disneyland.

Only my friend, the finance to be be, M, and I know about this. I am currently wracking my brain on proposal ideas. Ariel is her favorite but I am thinking near the castle or Snow White's Wishing Well. Its just SO exciting. That however means we will have to be in the park on Friday instead of another day. It make most sense to change our non-park day to Tuesday for a few reasons. I
really want to see Casa Nueva and the kitty herd too. Friday wasn't the best for A&F and in retro I hate pushing things off that I want to do because we seem to run out of time near the end of our trips. Its like that missing dryer sock.
I also spoke with my girlfriend today and we are going to stay with her and visit and not stay at the Hilton. I am very happy about this. I just love her and really want to spend as much time as we can with her. The boyfriend hasn't moved back in so it'll be great.
Revised plan:
Saturday Dec 6: leave SLC, drive through to So Cal, stay with friend.
Sunday Dec 7: Beach!

Visit my dad in the morning. Mornings are better for him than evenings. It sounds silly but he never gets fast food and he loves McDonald's so we may grab that on the way. Or Jack in the Box but he prefers the hash browns at McD's.
Monday Dec 8: Beach!

Or maybe Knott's Berry Farm. Knott's is having an amazing promo for law enforcement and fire personnel. The employee plus one get in free and everyone after is $30 each. The kids haven't been to Knott's and I've read great things about it. We'll see.....it'll be a little dependent on the weather but I'm doing a little Knott's research just in case.
Tuesday Dec 9: After we leave my friend's about 9:30, we'll run over to the GCV, check in early for a chance at scoring one of my villa requests, grab lunch at maybe Chen's and take it over to A&F's, visit, meet the fur babies and grab the air mattress. Leave by 2:00, go grocery shopping, and then head back to the GCV. Okay, I am loving this day. Our friends will arrive about 1:30 so they'll have to wait for us but they can stay busy in DTD until we get there. Dinner won't be at Cafe Orleans as planned but I am thinking it'll be light anyway after Chinese for lunch.
Wednesday Dec 10:
DCA Starting the trip in DCA is always a struggle but it would be worse to end the trip there so there ya have it.
Park hours: Disneyland 9a-10p and
DCA 9a-8p with
EMH/MM 8a-9a
World of Color!
P.S. Naples in DTD for a late lunch
Thursday Dec 11:
Disneyland and DCA This is the day we're spending with Alison.
Park hours:
Disneyland 9a-11p with
EMH/MM 8a-9a and
DCA 9a-8p
Fireworks!
No P.S. but I think we're planning on Plaza Inn for lunch.
Friday Dec 12:
Disneyland and the propsal!!! 
Park hours:
Disneyland 8a-midnight with
EMH/MM 7-8 am and DCA 8a-11p
P.S. Storytellers for dinner
but of course my PS is for 9 not 10.
Saturday Dec 13:
DCA
Park hours: Disneyland 8a-midnight with EMH/MM 7a-8a and
DCA 8a-11p
P.S. Carnation Cafe
again for 9 not 10. 
And now that I have made the no hopper decision, I need dinner ideas for DCA. I am thinking maybe we'll grill in the villa. I suspect it'll be SO crowded so maybe we'll take an early decent sized dinner break and then close DCA down.
Sunday Dec 14:
Disneyland
Park hours:
Disneyland 8a-midnight and DCA 8a-11p. No EMH/MM.
Fantasmic!
P.S. Not really a PS but I booked the new Fantasmic! Grab and Go meal with FP! Lots of info floating around but I'll be happy to elaborate if you'd like.
Of course the planned WoC, fireworks, and F! are providing there is no rain/wind in So Cal and no cancelations.
Monday Dec 15: drive home, straight through, Utah bound.
I must have said maybe 10 times in the above.