I did something nice for another Guest at WDW last week and a Cast Member saw what I did and gave me a set of the YOAMD Tinkerbell Pixie Dust Pins.The instructions said to give the second pin to another Guest,but I gave mine to a Cast Member who was really,really wonderful.Was it all right to give it to a Cast Member or should I have given it to another Guest as the instructions stated?Also,how rare are theTinkerbell Pin sets-I had never seen one before?Thanks.
You should have given it to another guest. While it was undoubtedly a fine gesture, CMs are asked to discourage guests from giving them the second pin.
Actually, I think that's quite nice you gave it to a cast member. Cast members don't, in practice, receive tokens of appreciation very often, and cannot be given a Tinkerbell pin by a manager. So in my opinion, very well done. They are as rare as the manager is stingy with them. In my experience, pretty durn rare.
Well now, that depends. My management team has always been extremely liberal in giving us Pixie Dust Pin Packs to give to guests.
As for Management giving them to CMs: they are intended to be given to Guests, not to CMs for personal use.
I was told by a CM at DTD that the pin lanyards they wear while working are strictly for pin trading with guests -they aren't allowed to take the pins home or even swap out the pins from their "work" lanyard with a personal lanyard if they collect and trade pins themselves. I don't particularly think that's fair, especially if a guest goes the extra mile to give a nice or rare pin to a CM but I can see Disney's reasoning behind it, too.
If a Guest actually GIVES (not trades) a pin to a CM, they may keep it. However, if the CM puts that pin on their work lanyard, and another guest wants it and wants to trade for it, the CM
must trade it -- CMs are
not permitted to decline a trade, as long as both pins meet Pin Trading Guidelines (i.e. must be a Disney or Operating Participant pin, must be metal, in good condition, etc.). However, CMs are
strongly encouraged to discourage Guests from giving them gifts.
I have an issued Pin Lanyard that stays in my locker when I'm not wearing it -- but I've never been told that I'm not permitted to bring it home. In fact, I know plenty of CMs who openly wear theirs while travelling home.
Does this mean that the Cast Member will have to trade the Tinkerbell Pixie Dust pin I gave them with a Guest?I did not receive a pin from the Cast Member in exchange for the Tinkerbell pin.I gave the Cast Member the pin as a personal gift-a token of appreciation.Won't the Cast Member be allowed to keep it?Thanks.
They may, unless they place it on their Work Pin Lanyard. Then, they
must trade it if another guest wants it.
Thanks for the information.

Would the YOAMD pin/lanyard set be a token gift of appreciation that a deserving Cast Member would enjoy receiving or since Cast Members are discouraged from accepting gifts,would it be better not to gift it?Thanks.
I would STRONGLY encourage you NOT to give the YOAMD Pin lanyard set to a CM. CMs are
not allowed to participate in the YOAMD Prize Giveaway. If a guest gives a YOAMD Pin set to a CM, and management or Security catches them with it, they can -- and likely will -- be terminated.