I don't know weather or not you have checked out touringplans.com. I've posted one of the plans that included rides for both the toddlers and the adults. I would reccomend having a fastpass runner throughout the day to gather fastpasses for headline attractions for the adults, and using rider swap so that one rider can take the kids on a ride with the other adults ride, then swap over

I can't stress how important to me getting to the parks before rope drop is, but understand that with small children this isn't always possible. if you are able to though, you'll be able to get through everything in Fantasyland before the afternoon crowds set in.
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Disneyland Entrance
Arrive 40 minutes before official opening time and line up in front of Gate 13
2) Peter Pan's Flight
3) Mr. Toad's Wild Ride
4) Pinocchio's Daring Journey
5) Snow White's Scary Adventures
6) Storybook Land Canal Boats
7) Matterhorn Bobsleds
8) Finding Nemo Submarine Voyage
9) Space Mountain FASTPASS Booth
10) Buzz Lightyear Astro Blasters
11) The Golden Horseshoe
12) Space Mountain
13) Enchanted Tiki Room
14) The Disneyland Story presenting Great Moments with Mr. Lincoln
15) Sailing Ship Columbia
Ride this or the Mark Twain Riverboat, whichever comes first.
16) Mark Twain Riverboat
Ride this or the Sailing Ship Columbia, whichever comes first.
17) Big Thunder Mountain Railroad FASTPASS Booth
18) Pirate's Lair on Tom Sawyer Island
19) Tarzan's Treehouse
20) Big Thunder Mountain Railroad
21) Eat dinner
22) Revisit favorite attractions or see others you missed.
Check your daily entertainment schedule for parades, Fantasyland Theatre productions, or other live entertainment.
Notes:
I would send a runner to get Fastpasses for any Fastpass attraction first thing in the morning while the rest of the group proceeds to Fantasyland. Effective use of the fastpass system will make the day enjoyable for everyone
