WWYD... living with aging family?

[SandrA9810]

Living near my sister is way out of the question... I'd rather be homeless than live near her... Sorry, don't feel any moral obligations to her or the things she does.

 

[wdwfan16]

Living near my sister is way out of the question... I'd rather be homeless than live near her... Sorry, don't feel any moral obligations to her or the things she does.

Yet she drove two hours to get you to work on your first day. That was very nice of her.

Moving by your sister would be for your aunt and grandmother and for extra help from your sister, mother and brother.

 

[SandrA9810]

Yes, she did drive up here for that. Which is nice of her... and I can do nice things back for her too (like she wants to take the kids to sea world and asked me to help her out since I have a pass there). But I just couldn't stand to live near her. There's just so much that I couldn't possibly go into details here nor would I want to. We can spend a day together here and there, but that's about it.


ETA: I'm not going to totally upturn my life over this. This is something I'm considering doing if my aunt chooses here. I have my job here, and that's what's important to me. I'm not going to give it up that easily. And who knows how long it would be before I found another one. My aunt's not moving to support some one else (as to why my mom would not be welcome to live with her).