The Dark Dancer
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I am a bit heavier than most girls my age (14) ...But just so you know, it is really hard for kids to be heavier; And I thought adults were mature enough to believe in the morals that "you can't judge a book by it's cover" but in this case, I guess I was wrong. Reading what the OP posted made me realize, not only do I have to watch out for criticism from the people I know and meet, but from full grown adults who may see me in a store or something.
I have about 5 good friends who range in sizes. 4 of them are tiny and the other is my size.
My tiniest friend who is thirteen weighs 90lbs. She is 5'5" and the one of the sweetest people you have ever met. She gets teased and harassed sometimes about "Being a stick figure" or "Being Anorexic". It's really very horrible. Sometimes she really tries to gain weight, but it doesn't come.
Honey, let me tell you, she eats 10 times more than I do and she does not participate in any sport.
I believe you should stop judging what's on the outside and begin discovering what's on the inside.
You may think me wrong, but kids are kids, and while I think it's good to teach good eating habits, it's also a necessity to realize that they are just children and they have the rest of their lives to worry over their weight.
Oh lord,
Note to self: if I ever see the OP to this thread in a grocery store while buying a bag of chips:
Drop the chips and run away frantically; Lord knows I don't want her to think that I have bad eating habits and that I'm ruining my life.
I have about 5 good friends who range in sizes. 4 of them are tiny and the other is my size.
My tiniest friend who is thirteen weighs 90lbs. She is 5'5" and the one of the sweetest people you have ever met. She gets teased and harassed sometimes about "Being a stick figure" or "Being Anorexic". It's really very horrible. Sometimes she really tries to gain weight, but it doesn't come.
Honey, let me tell you, she eats 10 times more than I do and she does not participate in any sport.
I believe you should stop judging what's on the outside and begin discovering what's on the inside.
You may think me wrong, but kids are kids, and while I think it's good to teach good eating habits, it's also a necessity to realize that they are just children and they have the rest of their lives to worry over their weight.
You know, you're right. I'm just getting so frustrated when I see those families in the grocery store, in the food court at the mall or the plus size clothes in the store. It's an epidemic and I think it's incredibly sad for children to be put into that position by their parents. Obesity is unhealthy and it's just not fair to the kids.
Oh lord,
Note to self: if I ever see the OP to this thread in a grocery store while buying a bag of chips:
Drop the chips and run away frantically; Lord knows I don't want her to think that I have bad eating habits and that I'm ruining my life.
aw:
I wondering though...how do you tell those children are obese because of the parent's lack of concern from the kids who have Prader-Willi, diabetes, or large ancestors
And how can you tell that their parent don't care?
). Anyway, they always have this big duffel bag with them and when the class is over, the pull out snacks (lollipops, ring pops, skittles, etc) and give him some along with any of his other friends. There have been at least 3 times while I was there that his mom showed up with a Bundt cake. Of course, the instructors LOVE her
because they can eat that stuff. But it has become obvious why her son is so overweight. Even if the only treats he ever got were on the nights he was at Tae Kwon Do (which I'm doubting so, yes, I guess I'm judgemental), then it would be too much. So for every kid that might be clueless as to why he/she is overweight, there are others where you can see exactly why they are. Judgemental or not, I believe this is the majority of the problem with obese kids--remember before you jump down my throat, I said OBESE. This is just one example that I see today. I've seen it before. Many parents use food as a means of expressing love and making their kids happy. Who doesn't like to see their kids' face light up when you say "let's go to McDonald's for lunch?" I know my kids LOVE it and I don't think they are any different from the rest of the world.