I would not. I'm about to cancel my Memorial Day trip myself for the same reason - just waiting until I'm at about week 16 or so before I cancel. (of course, I would be at 34 weeks and just see no way I would go - last pregnancy, my dr. cut me off travel at 27 weeks).
I've had issue with both my first and now this one spending some time on bedrest early on, and just would not be willing to risk it. The walking's not really a problem, but the lifting and carrying DS (who would be 3) would be very wearing. Also, the heat could be a serious issue. The short answer is I'm just not willing to be that far away and take the risk for a trip I'll just postpone for 6 months or so.
I'll be there this Dec, and then plan another trip for Dec. 2010. It won't be the same, because the May trip was to be with DSister and her family, along with DS, but I'll work on planning a family trip again in another few years.
I've had issue with both my first and now this one spending some time on bedrest early on, and just would not be willing to risk it. The walking's not really a problem, but the lifting and carrying DS (who would be 3) would be very wearing. Also, the heat could be a serious issue. The short answer is I'm just not willing to be that far away and take the risk for a trip I'll just postpone for 6 months or so.
I'll be there this Dec, and then plan another trip for Dec. 2010. It won't be the same, because the May trip was to be with DSister and her family, along with DS, but I'll work on planning a family trip again in another few years.
I agree about getting the insurance for just in case, and I also have really great pregnancies (I love them!), but yes, for me, I'd totally do it again!
(for the record, the complication had nothing to do with incompetent cervix).
There will always be another chance to go on vacation
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You will not be able to ride many of the rides and may not want to ride any of them because of how you feel. If you go into the trip with very flexible plans, I think you can still have a nice trip. Just be prepared to rest alot and stay at the hotel if you need it. Will Hubby take the kids to the parks without you?? Will they have fun if they have to have more down time because of you.