Would You Believe?

[Beth__WDW23/6/02]

We are moving YET AGAIN tommorow, BUT (notice the very big BUT) NOT to OUR OWN HOUSE,to my MOTHERS! as DP'S mother has declared she has "HAD ENOUGH OF US BEING HERE!" "AND WANTS HER OWN SPACE BACK!"

Note yesterday we was told by my brother that the house we shall be renting off him which is still being refurbished isnt going to be ready on time and they need another 2/3 weeks to get it all ready! we was annoyed but had to deal with it, I mean we are annoyed here as much as mother in law, so yesterday I told her and the responce was! " oh for god sake ive had enough of you lot, i want my home back, why didnt your mother take you all in, why dont you rent a caravan somewhere or go on holiday or something i want my home back, i just dont believe this ....yadda yadda yadda!" (well not the yadda but thats when I switched off)!

So after me arguing back and ringing my mother she as always said we can stay there but martyn wanted to come here as he felt a little uncomfortable at my mothers,so I opted for here! (big mistake)...
So now we have packed most of our belongings, and will leave tommorow morning of which we arent speaking and they are turning every word we say into its our choice to leave...but for the past few weeks we have been given the silent treatment, chelsea has been told off numerous of times, and she moans about anything...etc..she is a fussy and *****y mother in law I overheard her calling me to martyns brothers g/f saying "shes always in bed all day her up there!" meaning me! of which I arent I am purely up here to be out of her way! when martyns at work! its all gone to pot! and the pot is now boiling...

AM I in the wrong I have now decided enoughs enough with her and she isnt welcome to our new home, if she can practically throw us out with her grandchild, then what kind of person is she? I can see her point of view but we are in a position where we have no other option and thought she was helping, also I dont want her to see us, just stay away? am I being fair? she has really upset me everything we have been through and she has treated so unfairly...

will try and pop on tommorow but will be offline for quite a few weeks...hopefully sooner, but Im not happy! spent all night sweating packing 3 large suitcases, all our disney belongings, gathering t.vs etc... sigh!!!

NOTE never move in with mother in laws (some can be alright but martyns well, need i say more )

Sorry to rant!!! x

 

[shellbell]

Beth

I can't believe this its just one thing after another for you. I hope you get to your mums with no problems and that your brothers house is ready soon. When does Chelsea go back to school? Sending lots of pixie dust your way and a big

I hope its over very soon

Michelle

 

[sharon78]

OMG Beth im so sorry to hear about all your problems
I think your a lot better off out the way, living in a house with all that bitterness and argueing is not good for anyone's stress level's,you must be feeling so unhappy and ****'ed off at the moment

I hope you all settle in at your mums alot better,hopefully it wont be to long before your brother get's that house done

Just keep thinking of that wondeful holiday you had not to long ago,keep your spirits up im sending you all lots of pixie dust and
Take care Beth

By the way i love the photo of you and Chelsea you both look so happy

 

[Beth__WDW23/6/02]

Thanx everyone
Chelsea goes back on the 1st september (yup I know), chelsea is 5 on the 27th august (yep I know) GROAN we wanted to be settled in our new home, and sorting out a party for her but it seems like it is all going to be rushed! and she wont get her party unless we have one at the families but it isnt the same!!
As for mother in law, well she has completely done it with me, we will keep the peace for the moment as we have alot of our stuff here stored, but once moved etc she will get her ear full she deserves! she has really upset me, she knew what to expect when she offered us to stay here infact she pushed for us to be here so much!!
Its made me realise families arent worth the world especially mother in laws (who are like marts mother LOL)!!!! cant you tell i'm peeved!

It seems ever since the landlord decided he was to sell, our housing problems have gotten worser and worser! we didnt expect all this agro!! well I knew it would be a nightmare but not like this!

STRESS is becoming a big factor with me, I've lost weight, no appetite, and becoming a nightmare to be with (ask martyn)! the only thing to solve this is to go back on hol (crafty huh?) hehe!! just have to convince mart!! no seriously this has taken alot out of all of us! chelsea seems to not be herself and be more withdrawn she misses her bedroom and toys and rabbits I feel so bad! :9

Ahh well going to email AOL to cancel the connnection then we are off, will msg you when we can! HOPEFULLY FROM OUR NEW HOME!!!

Thanx everyone to listening to my wining, etc...

P,s thank you in the pic we was so excited!! wish we was there now!!! seems like a million years away!

 

[KayleeUK]

Beth

Poor you, Hopefully it won't be too long before you are settled in your new home.

Looking forward to seeing you back here soon

 

[kazzie]

Beth,

It will all be sorted out soon.This is the low point and it can only get better!

Live with the in-laws--NEVER

 

[squitty]

Aww Beth sorry to hear your news

I have been there and got the T'shirt so they say...

Good Luck, hope your new home is ready sooner rather than later.

 

[Scottish_Maleficent]

Sorry to hear this Beth, seneding you some pixie dust to bring you better luck!

Take Care
Cath

 

[Miffy2003]

Things will get better Beth! Take care.

Karen

 

[Muppet]

Beth

I know where you are coming from I've got a MIL form hell to.

Things have to get better soon, trust me.