would you be offended

[kristen821]

Are you sure they didn't just forget to mention it. It seems wierd that they wouldn't mention it unless for some reason it would make you mad. They probably thought they mentioned it but never did.

 

[minnie56]

Not sure I would be 'offended'?? But it would be odd. What if, God Forbid, something happened and they were just 'nowhere to be found'?? Kind of strange for parents to not say "By the way, we are off on a cruise on this day for 7 or however many days"? Just a courtesy..IMO

 

[momm2four]

As long as they said something before they left the county, I wouldn't be offended. Whether they tell me a year before or the day before, as long as someone knew where they were for emergencies, I'd be fine with it. They're adults and not required to run all their trips by me ahead of time.

I called my mom one day and she said she was packing. I asked where she was going, and she said "Hawaii!" I thought it was funny, because I was just expecting to hear her say she was going somewhere an hour away or so for some church convention, but no...she and my step-dad were hopping on a plane that weekend and flying to Hawaii.

Lori P.

 

[Lanshark]

It ticks me because my father almost died 1 year ago and spent time in ICU and had to be revived by EMT in ambulance. Their cell phone will not work on ship so no contact for 1 week.

This may be why they didn't tell you. Maybe they anticipated this reaction.