I am posting under a different name than I normally do...I work for a big company and not sure if anyone from there reads this board!
In the past 3 weeks it is way out in the open that 3 guys and 3 woman there are having affairs with each other....why in the world would a guy chance throwing away 23 years of marriage (which he is always saying how he loves his wife and they do everything together....well I guess not everything huh????)...and why in the world would a grown woman (single and in her 50's) want to be bothered with all that "someone elses huband" crap?? Guy #2 is another one that is married for over 20 years, just because a grandpa for the second time...is in his early 50's and cheating with someone in her 30's who is also married....Guy #3 is in his early 40's, is on the phone all day with his wife, they are always going away together on weekend getaways, she brings him lunch to work a few times a week and they have 2 little kids...yet another one that is cheating on his wife with someone who is in her 20's.....what is with these people?? It disgusts me to even look at them at this point!! The thing that really turns my stomach is when i see them out someplace with their families and see their wives who look so happy and have no idea what jerks their husbands are!! I just can't imagine that any fling would be worth chancing me getting divorced, not being with my kids all the time, loosing half my pension and house I worked so many years for in a divorce!! The only thing I have ever heard any of these guys complain about in their marriages is that their wives are sahm's and they want them to start working and bringing some money in...but other than that they all get along just fine! I am now just keeping to myself and not even socializing with any of them at work since it ticks me off what they are all doing!
In the past 3 weeks it is way out in the open that 3 guys and 3 woman there are having affairs with each other....why in the world would a guy chance throwing away 23 years of marriage (which he is always saying how he loves his wife and they do everything together....well I guess not everything huh????)...and why in the world would a grown woman (single and in her 50's) want to be bothered with all that "someone elses huband" crap?? Guy #2 is another one that is married for over 20 years, just because a grandpa for the second time...is in his early 50's and cheating with someone in her 30's who is also married....Guy #3 is in his early 40's, is on the phone all day with his wife, they are always going away together on weekend getaways, she brings him lunch to work a few times a week and they have 2 little kids...yet another one that is cheating on his wife with someone who is in her 20's.....what is with these people?? It disgusts me to even look at them at this point!! The thing that really turns my stomach is when i see them out someplace with their families and see their wives who look so happy and have no idea what jerks their husbands are!! I just can't imagine that any fling would be worth chancing me getting divorced, not being with my kids all the time, loosing half my pension and house I worked so many years for in a divorce!! The only thing I have ever heard any of these guys complain about in their marriages is that their wives are sahm's and they want them to start working and bringing some money in...but other than that they all get along just fine! I am now just keeping to myself and not even socializing with any of them at work since it ticks me off what they are all doing!
