Another one of these posts! My family (husband, sons then 3 and 8, me) are headed back next may. I have always loved the wilderness lodge but never stayed there. Based on price (about $75 rack rate less than CR) I booked us here. The rooms look dark and small, and we will need to rent a toddler bed since our youngest will just be 3. We live in woodsy suburbs so this theme does not appeal to my husband. The contemporary fascinated my oldest son last trip, and you really can't beat the size of the rooms or the proximity to MK. We would put the youngest in the daybed, but the lack of theme is underwhelming. I will eventually stay at both, but for next May, what do you think?
With young children and one just turned three, i would absolutely stay at the CR GW. As a PP said, request the ground floor for ease of access and the patio. The convenience of walking to and from the MK is wonderful! The rooms are huge, bright and comfortable, you will get a daybed as well as two queen beds so you can get bed rails for the toddler from housekeeping.
The WL does have a beautiful theme but the rooms
are smaller and darker. The boat is very nice and there is a bus to the MK that only takes about 5 minutes, but I would wait to stay at this resort when the two boys are a little older.
We now love the theme at the CR, but it wasn't always my favourite. The first time that we stayed at the CR I expected to dislike the theming, but we loved our stay there so much that, for us, it is tied with the GF and Poly for the best place to stay in WDW. We have stayed in both the GW and the tower and
enjoy each in different ways. Many of the views from the GW are lovely and would be considered a preferred view at many resorts. The GW is only steps away from the main tower so even the furthest rooms are really not that far away. The transportation from the CR is the best on property - especially if you are using Disney transportation. You have direct access to every resort via the MK bus stop (just a 5-10 minute walk from the CR) or a boat or the monorail! The only place that you have to transfer to get to is Epcot and that is via the monorail which is an easy switch. The monorails seem to run frequently (when working) which means that the transfer time seems much less than when two buses are involved. The other way that we have used is to bus to the BWI or the BC and walk into Epcot via the International gateway. This world well for ADR's in WS, especially for the UK or Canada or France.
Don't forget that Chef Mickey's is at the CR, plus you have a boat to FW for the Hoop dee Doo Revue! The Contempo Cafe is a great quick service in our experience as well. A meal at the California Grille will get you the opportunity to watch HEA fireworks from the top of the tower, which is awesome. Alternatively, there is a viewing platform on the 4th floor for watching the fireworks, if you are interested. Stepping outside or watching the EWP from your room is also very nice in the evening.
The pool at the CR is perhaps the weakest aspect of a stay here. The pool is very simple with a limited splash area for little ones. On the positive side, we never found it crowded and enjoyed our time at the pool more than we expected.
Good luck with whichever you choose!They really are both awesome resorts!