Here's my BEO cut from our Wishes DP. We did have the music piped in. And we tweaked the menu just a bit from the "A Kiss Goodnight" offered (easy to do).
This does not include the little wine-glass lamp shades we had made for table decoration.
Ours was at Sago Cay Pointe
This stuff...the stuff in the glass...you HAVE to have! It's the Warm White Chocolate with Amaretto Shot. Amazing.
But everything else was good, too.
It was a nice end to our Wedding Day. We did have an IllumiNation welcome dinner, so I have to admit I would've had a hard time picking between there and here if I had to choose one.
BUT...in retrospect, this one was near the rest of the wedding events, so it was low-key, an people just wandered up after their siesta (or whatever). No bus, no viewing fee, no attendants to guide people in and out of Epcot, etc. So, yes, I think the costs are drastically lower, even if you have the music piped in. There is a less expensive menus, too, but I'm sure you could even customize it
Bear in mind these are over a year old.
On the flip side, people are still raving about the IllumiNations welcome dinner. But, since we did it FIRST (the night before the wedding), people weren't as worn out as they would be after a long wedding day.
I hope that helps.