Why Me

[mushumadness]

Hiya

Well I dont know if I am having one of those years already, I am having a real sucky 2 weeks for sure.. sorry to moan on here but no one else is here, and your great guys

to start it all off I am off work with stress (at 23!!) just dont seem to be able to get my head around anything.

My sisters skin cancer is being removed next week, taking 2 inces off her forhead but arnt putting any skin in to replace what goes, which she is fretting over and so are we.

To top it all I am having a mole removed which looks like being askin cancer! as its gown and changed color, scared doesnt even cover it, two days ago I was dead happy looking at weddings etc and now who knows if I will get to one.

So to try cheer myself up I was going to buy a yankee candle in trick of treat or witches brew (i love halloween) but the uk sellers on ebay are high priced, the american ones are great prices but wont ship here, so im gutted

sorry togo on but I know you guys will udnerstand

 

[kristieuk]

Gosh, I'm so sorry to hear about all your bad news. Sometimes, it's so hard to feel positive about anything, but I'm not surprised that you are finding things so hard because you are dealing with such difficult issues.

I know this is a lot easier said that done, but try to take one day at a time, you never know, there might be good news tomorrow, and you might not feel so daunted by the worst case scenarios of the longer picture.

I'm sure that in the end, everything will all work out, but I'm sending you some pixie dust to help you on the way (I can't get the smilie, but I'm still sending it!).
You know you can always come here for some big hugs and moral support

 

[mandymouse]

Oh Anna, if you were here right now I would give you a big hug, no wonder you are stressed out, with all your worries over your sister and yourself. I wish I had a candle to give you, just to cheer you up. Sorry I can't give any advice, but if you want to cry, scream or vent, then we are all here for you

Take care

Mandy

Pixie Dust is on it's way

 

[mushumadness]

dbf already thinks i am unhinged that i havnt cried,

im burning a nice cherry lemonade candle and trying to think straight,

 

[stemikger]

Two years ago before my big Disney trip I was told I had melanoma. Yikes. I was so scared. Of all places it was on my belly button. Melanoma is not the good kind. However, when they removed it they found it did not spread. So now I have no belly button, but that is no big deal.

The main thing you have to do is don't do your own research because you will only scare yourself. 99% of these things once they are removed are fine. In my case they couldn't determine how bad it was because the piece was so small, so they removed it and found out that was the only part that had it.

I know it's easier said then done, but stay calm and I'm sure you will be fine.

 

[Minniespal]

So sorry to hear that you are having such a hard time at the moment

I have Yankee Candle Trick or Treat tea lights which I will gladly give to you. Just pm me your details.

 

[ely3857]

Oh Anna



Jodie

 

[florida sun]

Anna , So sorry to hear you are having a bad time of it.




Sue

 

[jockey]

Anna-sorry to hear your having such a bad time of it. I had a mole removed from my back about 10 years ago - it had become nearly 5 times it's original size - after the op it was tested and was not milignant. It was a very stressful time so I know some of what you are going through.

 

[wils]

Anna - just sending you a big . I hope things improve soon

Florence - You *. Thank you

 

[jen_uk]

Anna, Im sending you loads of pixie dust , no wonder you are stressed, Im so sorry you are having such a hard time. Hopefully your mole will not be anything serious and your sister will be just fine.

 

[Cyrano]

Anna you've came to the right place here, everyone is so supportive.
Sending you

 

[carolfoy]

I can't add or do anything other than to say we are all here for you, love and hugs. Please don't let these feelings of despair overwhelm you. You can't take any action right this minute so only cross those bridges when you come to them.

 

[jns]

I had three moles removed from my back and legs 2 years ago. They were tested and was not milignant Thank God.

my mother had one off her face that was milignant,when the tests came back , but sure it was off by then so nothing else had to be done
My mothers Moto is
"Cancer is not going to beat me "
A very strong lady

The main thing is to get them off as quickly as possible

andtry and stop worring
sending some your way

 

[wilma-bride]

Anna, I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time of it. It's hardly surprising you're feeling a bit stressed out at the moment. I am sure both you and your sister will be fine. Sending lots of pixie dust if it helps

PS Hope your work are being understanding about what you're going through.

 

[mushumadness]

unfortunatly my work arnt very understanding at all, they call everyday to ask if i will be back soon, because they are doing what i should be doing, i unfortunatly work for a high street bank. when i go back i will be in bother for being off now. not much to look forward to really

 

[wilma-bride]

unfortunatly my work arnt very understanding at all, they call everyday to ask if i will be back soon, because they are doing what i should be doing, i unfortunatly work for a high street bank. when i go back i will be in bother for being off now. not much to look forward to really

Anna, I know it probably doesn't feel like it but there are others who understand exactly how you're feeling. I struggled with depression on and off for almost 7 years and had to have almost 4 months off work at one stage. Going back was one of the hardest things I've ever done in my life but I got through it and so will you.

I know it's easy to say but try not to worry too much about things which you have no control over. As far as your work go, if you have a medical certificate authorising the time off then there is little they can realistically do about it - they may have a moan but they will just have to live with it. It's a shame they are not being understanding about how you are feeling.

Feel free to PM me if you want to have a moan, chat or just get things off your chest. If I can offer any advice, I will. It may not be any consolation now but in 6 months time, with any luck, you will be over this period in your life where nothing seems to go right and will not even remember how bad things were. I know that I have little memory of my bleakest hours/days (and that's how I want it to stay).

Don't forget, you have your friends on the DIS whenever you need us

 

[KayleeUK]

for you.

 

[mumloveseeyore]

nothing more to add just hpoe it all works out and im thinking of you Gill

 

[Lisash]

Hope you feel better soon Anna We're always here for you