why marry a woman first if you're a gay man?

[kindra657]

- I know several people who identify primarily as gay who have fallen in love with a member of the opposite gender--if asked, they say, "if anything happened to DH/DW, I'd go back to women/men in a heartbeat". (Likewise, I've known many people who identify primarily as straight who have fallen in love with a member of the same gender--they seem to have a harder time accepting this attraction since it's not only contrary to their standard attractions, but, also to society's.)

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