I understand a lot of what the author was talking about. But every choice has it's pros and cons. It is sad that her children don't realize that she did indeed work hard all of those years but just didn't bring home a paycheck.
I became a SAHM because I didn't make a lot of money and between gas for the car, equipment upkeep, uniforms and daycare, I would have been paying out about as much as I was bringing in. If I would have cleared even $6000 more a year after daycare expenses I probably would have kept working but it didn't make sense monetarily at the time. I knew that being out of the workforce for 8-10 years would make it difficult for me to find a job. I have about a year to go until I can start looking for part-time work that still allows me to be home when the kids get home from school and where I still have the ability to shuttle them to their activities. Oh, and I'll be 40. Ha. Good luck with that, right?
I don't regret our decision. For us it was the only choice that made sense. Eventually I want to contribute to our income with actual dollars and I will find a way to do that down the road.