Why do people kiss?

[life of the party]

double post

 

[chisnpeke]

maybe you need to just be quiet about things when they arent a big deal.
like me saying i thought it was wierd?!
wierd for MY culture. it is. for MY culture. idk about where YOU live, but where I live its odd, strange, out of the ordinary, wierd


& sorry if 'umm' may have made 'her' feel "like a freak"



your really being rude so im acting the same way back

Ok. I've noticed a lot of your posts (not just on this thread) come across as harsh and kind of crass. Whether you intend for them to be that way or not, I don't know but that is how they come across.

I try really hard to be polite on here. I have strong beliefs but I try my best not to bash others. Sorry you took it that way.

 

[life of the party]

Ok. I've noticed a lot of your posts (not just on this thread) come across as harsh and kind of crass. Whether you intend for them to be that way or not, I don't know but that is how they come across.

I try really hard to be polite on here. I have strong beliefs but I try my best not to bash others. Sorry you took it that way.

like what?

 

[chisnpeke]

like what?

One time you just jumped to the conclusion that a person was lying and said

"nobody likes a dirty liar "

A lot of the time I've just noticed the tone of your posts come off as rude and condescending. I don't think you mean it most of the time but it's just what I've noticed and it makes you appear to be unfriendly, which I have seen you be nice so I know you aren't truly mean.

 

[life of the party]

One time you just jumped to the conclusion that a person was lying and said

"nobody likes a dirty liar "

A lot of the time I've just noticed the tone of your posts come off as rude and condescending. I don't think you mean it most of the time but it's just what I've noticed and it makes you appear to be unfriendly, which I have seen you be nice so I know you aren't truly mean.

oh my gosh!
i was talking to rachel about the snow in tennesse, i was totaly joking & she knows that
i love rachel haha!
i knew she would get the joke, i didnt think what everyone else would see it as

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

nvm

 

[chisnpeke]

oh my gosh!
i was talking to rachel about the snow in tennesse, i was totaly joking & she knows that
i love rachel haha!
i knew she would get the joke, i didnt think what everyone else would see it as

That's what I'm talking about! I think it just came across as rude because of the

If you would have added a it would have been easier to see it was a joke. It's hard online though since you can't hear inflections in people's voices so you can't tell if they are joking or not unless you add soemthing else.

 

[life of the party]

that's not a smart thing to be doing.

i know.

but i get mad FAST.
and really dont like taking crap from people, im extremely defensive as you can tell.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

i know.

but i get mad FAST.
and really dont like taking crap from people, im extremely defensive as you can tell.

so am i.
sometimes its best to just take a step back and read what you're posting.
it's saved me several times.

 

[life of the party]

That's what I'm talking about! I think it just came across as rude because of the

If you would have added a it would have been easier to see it was a joke. It's hard online though since you can't hear inflections in people's voices so you can't tell if they are joking or not unless you add soemthing else.

i understand.

its just im one of those people who tell a joke & try hard to act serious like "i dont understand why your cracking up im dead serious" after you say something totally ridiculous that you know is funny.

so when i know the person im directing a comment to will understand im joking, i usually use that same kind of dry humor on the dis.

i never really think of what other people will perceive it (& me) as

 

[chisnpeke]

so am i.
sometimes its best to just take a step back and read what you're posting.
it's saved me several times.

I don't always catch myself but if I have to question what I'm posting then I don't post it.

I will be honest and say I came close to reporting one of the posts tonight (would have been first time ever) but I opted not to. I don't want to be a tattle or a *****.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Where is Sonya's big chill pill picture? Lol.

It's honestly just the internet, guys. People's attitudes get misconstrued all the time.

I don't think Katie meant 'weird' in a bad way.

 

[life of the party]

I don't always catch myself but if I have to question what I'm posting then I don't post it.

I will be honest and say I came close to reporting one of the posts tonight (would have been first time ever) but I opted not to. I don't want to be a tattle or a *****.

one of mine?
well im sorry, and i understand where you coming from now.

this whole thing would have been WAY worse if it was in person, because i some what think about what im posting here.
not that much when im mad though, as you can tell xD

 

[life of the party]

Where is Sonya's big chill pill picture? Lol.

It's honestly just the internet, guys. People's attitudes get misconstrued all the time.

I don't think Katie meant 'weird' in a bad way.

Well by my attitude now compared to a few minutes ago i think its obvious, i ate it.
xD



& thank you!

 

[chisnpeke]

one of mine?
well im sorry, and i understand where you coming from now.

this whole thing would have been WAY worse if it was in person, because i some what think about what im posting here.
not that much when im mad though, as you can tell xD

Yea, just one of them. Haha. It made me upset when I first read it and I went to report then thought it's stupid to be a tattle and it's a pretty stupid thing to be reporting. It wasn't threatening my life or anything

I used to talk really fast and not really think before I spoke. In "real life" I can still be snippy and very, very sarcastic which I think can come across as rude to people who don't get it. I just try to be different on the internet because it is so hard to tell what people are really trying to say and I really don't want to piss someone off.

 

[life of the party]

Yea, just one of them. Haha. It made me upset when I first read it and I went to report then thought it's stupid to be a tattle and it's a pretty stupid thing to be reporting. It wasn't threatening my life or anything

I used to talk really fast and not really think before I spoke. In "real life" I can still be snippy and very, very sarcastic which I think can come across as rude to people who don't get it. I just try to be different on the internet because it is so hard to tell what people are really trying to say and I really don't want to piss someone off.

Oh? Like me?
xD

i get mad easy , but i get over it fast too though.
obviously haha!

 

[chisnpeke]

Oh? Like me?
xD

i get mad easy , but i get over it fast too though.
obviously haha!

I've also noticed that about you!

You have a short temper but you get over it quickly too.

I always feel like I have to stick up for people, even when it's not really needed. I don't know if that's a good or bad quality to have. I'm a pathetic case

My good friend and I, we always bicker back and forth. My temper can get pretty short with her but we get over it because we know that we aren't really mad at eachother, we're just mad at what the other person said.

 

[CastawayJ]

... yall still fighting?

 

[chisnpeke]

... yall still fighting?

Nah.

 

[CastawayJ]

good, I still don't know why either XD