Why do parents let their kids use the hottub as their own little pool?

[DJ Disney Kid]

Everytime I try to get in the hottub at my resort, there is always a bunch of kids in there playing around, being loud. Parents should keep their kids in the main pool / kiddie pool section. The hottub is for relaxation to work tense muscles, yet it tends to make me more tense if I have to sit next to five kids.

 

[DisneyWorldWisher]

Some kids like hot tubs....like me.
Though I can't imagine why they were screaming and splashing and not just enjoying the theraputic jets and warm water.

 

[RangerPooh]

As to not wanting to be flamed i won't go into my gripe about kids and hot tubs except to say that it really peeves me when the little kids (~5yo) are in there splashing about swimming under the water, jumping in (yep, have seen this one) and just being noisy while their parents sit there talking away not asking them to clam down b/c there are others in the tub. Sometimes I wonder if parents leave their manners at home . This being said, I know that this isn't always the case but sometimes it sure seems that way.

 

[disnut8]

We have the same complaint and try to wait it out. However, I believe there are posted rules about age limits for kids in hot tubs. If kids are getting a bit rambunctious, we will point out the limits. Usually a calm "this isn't a hot swimming pool" gets someone's attention.

 

[tiggerluver12]

Well you can flame me all you want, but my kids, ages 9, 10 and 12 want to get into the hot tub they can go right ahead. Who said its just for adults? Sometimes kids need a soak in the hot tub, too.

And, what about the adults who get into the pool and just float on their backs or get in the way of kids who are jumping and kicking and trying to have fun??? Should we tell them to get out???

 

[notnothin]

This has the potential to be come popcorn worthy. Off to the microwave!

 

[Deb & Bill]

Well you can flame me all you want, but my kids, ages 9, 10 and 12 want to get into the hot tub they can go right ahead. Who said its just for adults? Sometimes kids need a soak in the hot tub, too.

And, what about the adults who get into the pool and just float on their backs or get in the way of kids who are jumping and kicking and trying to have fun??? Should we tell them to get out???

There is nothing wrong with kids getting in the hot tub as long as an adult is in there with them. All signs at the hot tubs require adult supervision of kids. And if they want to sit and soak, not a problem. It's the ones who want to dive into the hot tub, have water fights with their friends or siblings, swim under the water, etc.

Like disnut8 said, it's a hot tub, not a hot swimming pool.

As for the adults in the pool who want to float, what's wrong with that? No one family should monopolize the entire pool or most of the pool with throwing balls or frisbies, marco polo games, etc.

It's called courtesy. Ever hear of that???

 

[Allison]

Well you can flame me all you want, but my kids, ages 9, 10 and 12 want to get into the hot tub they can go right ahead. Who said its just for adults? Sometimes kids need a soak in the hot tub, too.

And, what about the adults who get into the pool and just float on their backs or get in the way of kids who are jumping and kicking and trying to have fun??? Should we tell them to get out???

I don't think it is just for adults. I let my kids sit in the hot tub if they want. But, they have to use it as it is intended. I do agree it is not a swimming pool though and isn't for jumping around, swimming, or horseplay. It is to relax.

 

[kellyg403]

I agree about the kids splashing around in the hot tub but there is a flipside. Last year at CBR there were 4 grown men who were pretty hefty guys who decided to make a game of jumping in the pool and seeing who could splash the most...drove me crazy because they could have hurt someone.

But, it goes both ways. I just try to do what I am supposed to do with my kids and let everyone else worry about their own. Makes life alot simpler for me.

Kelly

 

[safetymom]

Most hotels that have hot tubs have a requirement that children under the age of 12 are not allowed in. My kids thought it was a rite of passage at that age to finally be able to use the hot tub.

I see nothing wrong if a parent is in the hot tub with the child and they are behaved. But I have seen way too many kids and no parents around. It was really bad when I stayed at CSR.

What ever happened to parents watching their children in the water?

 

[Mo-Yo]

I never let my kids swim in public hot tubs.

I don't get in them either.

To me they are just...ewwww! We all have our pet peeves, and mine is that public hot tubs seem like pots of human soup filled with strangers' germs, sweat and dirt.

And believe it or not, I am not a germ freak about anything else. I swear by the 10-second rule, and I am not even a fanatic about handwashing.

It's just my own personal little idiosyncracy.

 

[kellyg403]

Most hotels that have hot tubs have a requirement that children under the age of 12 are not allowed in. My kids thought it was a rite of passage at that age to finally be able to use the hot tub.

I see nothing wrong if a parent is in the hot tub with the child and they are behaved. But I have seen way too many kids and no parents around. It was really bad when I stayed at CSR.

What ever happened to parents watching their children in the water?

I agree. My children's rule was always if they can't read the rules then they can't go in. When they got old enough to read they realized they were still not old enough yet. I don't even let my 10 year old ride in the front seat because he is not 12 yet. I try really hard to not make judgments on why people would not be there when their kids are in the water or not paying attention when they are in the water/hot tub. My dh says I am more paranoid then need be because I usually end up watching kids that aren't my own while their parents are doing whatever...usually drinking drinks in the hot tub.

Kelly

 

[catycatcat4]

Everytime I try to get in the hottub at my resort, there is always a bunch of kids in there playing around, being loud. Parents should keep their kids in the main pool / kiddie pool section. The hottub is for relaxation to work tense muscles, yet it tends to make me more tense if I have to sit next to five kids.

its disney little kids run wilder that they are be for they came if you dont like it dont go to disney hot tubs its disney who cares

 

[DisneyMommyMichelle]

i can't stand that either the parents are usually sitting at a table drinking and chatting while the kids are jumping and splashing into the hot tub. I've even seen a kid call to his parents "mom look at this" and the kid went underwater and then jumped up. :rolleyeys: he was disturbing the other people just sitting there and the parents cheered the kid and said "good job! you'll stay under longer NEXT time"

 

[Deb & Bill]

its disney little kids run wilder that they are be for they came if you dont like it dont go to disney hot tubs its disney who cares

Even at Disney, people are supposed to be courteous of the other guests. Even kids should be courteous. Just because it's Disney doesn't give them free rein to act like jerks.

If Disney didn't care, they wouldn't post the signs at the hot tubs.

By the way, did you learn about punctuation in school? It's not that new and it makes it much easier to read what you write.

 

[Missus Toad]

I never let my kids swim in public hot tubs.

I don't get in them either.

To me they are just...ewwww! We all have our pet peeves, and mine is that public hot tubs seem like pots of human soup filled with strangers' germs, sweat and dirt.

And believe it or not, I am not a germ freak about anything else. I swear by the 10-second rule, and I am not even a fanatic about handwashing.

It's just my own personal little idiosyncracy.

Ditto that. No other germ issues here, but for some reason the hot tub is skeevy.

 

[mickeywho?]

I let my kids in the hot tub if they are there to relax and warm up after being in the big pool. And only if I'm in there with them! My eldest son - 8 yrs - does not have the patience to sit in the hottub for more than a minute or two - I make it seem really boring! My youngest (5 yrs) has to be dragged out - I limit him to five minutes so he doesn't overheat. My biggest rule is they are not allowed to put their heads underwater - grossness aside - I can't see them when they go under so I don't know if they are in trouble or not.
I'm also pretty aware of the other guests feelings - it's their holiday too so you need to be respectful of their boundaries. If I see a honeymooning couple, or an older couple having some quiet time, or someone on their own trying to relax - we can give them their space and wait until they are finished with the tub. Another family with a mom & a couple of kids wouldn't mind sharing. It's a small space and you need to be aware of other people's feelings. You can be loud in the pool where the lifeguards are on duty.

 

[freckles and boo]

Wow. There really isn't any need to be so critical about spelling, grammar, or punctuation. Most of us type much slower than we think.

Back to the topic... my 4 year old is on the autistic spectrum with sensory issues. She is hyposensitive, which means that her senses aren't as receptive to normal stimulation. She seeks out stronger stimulation just to get the same feelings most of us get naturally. I take her in hot tubs and spas because the jets and heat help her "feel". It is among the therapies that are recommended for her. That said, we are always in the water with her and she is never rambunctious. She just likes to "feel" the water the same as those who are trying to relax. I have seen plenty of rude adults smoking, drinking, and generally misbehaving in hot tubs, so to limit the criticism to children is a bit harsh. Bad behavior is bad behavior, no matter what the age.

 

[Alicnwondrln]

i thought there were age limits and dont think kids should be in hot tubs
i dont like having to wait to go in cuz there filled with kids who shoudl not be in there

 

[Tjaleks]

Bad behavior is bad behavior, no matter what the age.

I have to agree with my sis on this one. My boys are older 10 & 11 and both like to go in a hot tub. However, they don't stay in very long. They like the shock of going from hot to cold when they jump in the pool right after getting out. I am always with them at the pool and live by the golden rule, (at least I try to). IF I see adults that are trying to enjoy themselves in the hot tub then I don't allow them to get into it. If there is no one in it or other children of similiar age then I do. However, they also know there is to be no splashing, just sitting. Overall I think I bug my children to death because the first thing I ask them when we go some place, (outside our normal daily routine), is "What are the rules?" This reinforces the fact they need to think about what then can and can't do. For instance if we go to McDonalds for lunch and they want to play at a playplace the #1 rule is watch out for little children. The little kids always get right of way.







F&B I think this is the first thread we have both been on together.