Bought SSR because that was the resort Disney was selling when I bought in. Also, the lower price incentive and the longer contract were key factors.
That said, the flexibility of
DVC, ability to trade into the other DVC resorts and trade through Interval International were also reasons that I bought in. Those perks were all represented to be advantages to becoming a DVC Member.
So, I bought in with every intention of using the system as it was designed to be used: at my home resort if I wish, or at another resort if it is available. So far, I have stayed on points at SSR and Vero Beach. I have booked all of our vacations at under seven months.
We will continue to book beach vacations at VB and/or HH. Similarly, we will likely attempt a trade through Interval International to a beach resort in the Caribbean or Mexico sometime in the next couple of years. I will definitely book at least one stay at the AKV. At some point, I will probably decide that I want to try VWL, too. I may book a stay at OKW for the room size and points economy. I may book a stay at BCV or BWV, maybe not.
As for SSR, it offers what we like: privacy and quiet. It is the only DVC resort to offer sound-proofed rooms - to us, that is the bomb! It has a beautiful spa and gym. Its proximity to DTD is most definitely a plus to us since our vacations are not all about the parks

. It's great to have shopping, entertaining and dining so close by. Additionally, it is a great advantage to be able to walk to DTD and hop a bus to other resorts for dinner, in case we don't feel like driving. We just like that the option is available, whether we take advantage of it or not.
So, in a nutshell, I do not plan on staying at SSR on each and every vacation, but I do like the resort. It is pretty, quiet and elegant. That is right up our alley. I know it is not everyone's cup of tea (many have cited lack of "magic," presumably meaning that it is not "Disney" enough). I think SSR has just enough Disney detail. It's there, but it's subtle. More important, the cast members are Disney cast members, and they are the folks who make Disney World special, to me anyway.
There ya go! All my "secret" vacationing habits as a SSR owner.