I guess it makes some people feel good to do what they think is a "service" to the unenlightened, deluded members of the DVC population who need a "wake up call" about the nature of their membership. I find that amusing.
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I also find amusement in this and don't need a wake up call. I have absolutely no delusions about my purchase and I am about to make my most risky post. I am almost certain I will be flamed for this and be considered the most arrogant a** ever, but I guess I just can't hold back. I've got my flame suit on and I'm ready
Here's the story:
I grew up in a very strict household with well educated, financially independent parents. They both practiced medicine and it was their dream for me to do the same. Unfortunately, I crushed that dream, but chose a profession with no less respect. They sent me to undergraduate and graduate school completely paid for and provided a completely furnished 2 bedroom apartment (no roomate, the other bedroom was for an office). All of this was done so that my mind was completely focused on studies and there were no distractions like those found in the dorms. (I think we all know the variety of distractions I'm talking about.) This was also done so that I wouldn't have to worry about spending my own personal money. Obviously, A LOT of that money was saved because there was really nothing for me to spend it on anway.
I completely respect my parents and came home every few months. From childhood I was constantly reminded of the value of money and that it was in poor taste to succumb to frivolity. On these visits home my parents would ask me how much money I had saved, where I had invested it, and the return I was making on it. Each time I was taught a new lesson in finance and took all of their advice with great seriousness.
I ended up marrying a man who has the same feelings about money as my parents and was disgusted at each bill that came up for our Disney wedding. (My husband and I payed for this event ourselves) We scaled it back tremendously and ended up only having 7 guests as a result. Throughout our wedding planning I talked about DVC and how much I would love to have an ownership there. I expressed this at a holiday dinner and both my parents and husband rolled their eyes and expressed their opinions on how ridiculous ANY timeshare is.
I felt shot down and thought that if I had money in the bank it was my buisness if I wanted to spend it. However, I chose not to and instead continued to invest it as I always had. Then our wedding day came up,

and my parents presented me with a 300 point contract to Saratoga Springs. Upon receiving this gift my parents expressed that it was not at all something they would EVER purchase for themselves and were reluctant to buy it. Regardless, they knew this was something I really wanted, I had never done anything to disappoint them, and had worked diligently not to waste a penny of their money. In turn, they felt it was okay if they indulged me in this only frivolity.
I was elated!

I just couldn't wait to blow those points and have LOVED using them. I took my parents on a DVC trip a year later and enjoyed the time I spent with them. It was during that trip on our balcony at OKW that I decided to break some honest news to my parents.....

I softened the upcoming blow by saying that I had maxed out my 401K in my first year of employment, that I had x amount of $ in my Roth IRA, and that I had multiple meetings with my financial advisor...I then told them that I had added on yet ANOTHER 300 points to my DVC.
I sure you can imagine the shock on their faces. I continued to tell them that I knew that it was the most irresponsible purchase I had ever made, that it was completely unnecessary, and that I was doing nothing, but throwing my money in the face of DVC. I also expressed that I knew that if I had simply invested my money properly, that in 35 years the initial investment on the timeshare, plus dues, plus interest would equal to over 1 million dollars. With all of this knowledge they asked me why and how could I be so foolish to do such a thing....My response was a simple one:
*I wanted it
*It has been the only interest I have had outside of my profession
*I had the cash in the bank
* And most importantly, it allowed me enough points to take bi-annual vacations with both of them in tow and FORCED me to take those vacations because of the commitment I had made. Strangely, my mentality made it impossible for me to book a yearly vacation because of the waste.
*Additionally, I told my parents that we ALL make frivolous purchases, even THEM. (For instance, my father has a cabin he almost never visits and my mother is currently in Rabat, Morocco for no other reason than that she simply wanted to go)
Upon reflection, this satisfied my prudent parents and my father eventually admitted that it seemed fine as long as this sort of spending didn't become a habit. Even though I haven't taken a penny from either of my parents since a year before my marriage. Their opinions mean a great deal to me and I know I would be nothing without them.
In conclusion I can say that their are different strokes for different folks. Some like to travel the world, some like to stick to Disney. Some like classic cars or their collection of Fendi bags.
I love my purchase knowing what a waste it is of my money. It gives me something to look forward to every year and the enjoyment of being able to spend quality time with my family.
Now flame away. I realize that this is an unsual post, that it gives more background information than necessary, and that it expresses great reliance of parents (financially in the past and emotionally in the present) However, in the area I grew up in, it is somewhat of the culture to have the upmost respect for parents. In fact, I moved from the city in which I was educated to come home and live right next to them. In the community in which I live, this is a repeated trend where parents and adult children are in constant contact. I enjoy it and have a fufillment that few have
