Disney Planner Mama said:
I remember the first trip DH and I did to WDW we pulled into the parking lot of MK and it was a hot Florida day. The first thing I noticed was that the attendant was smiling as he waved us into place.

What's up with that? People being friendly and welcoming even under less than ideal conditions? Being originally from New York this genuinely confused us (

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Since then we have been back many many times and I think what the magic of disney does is take away your worries. People are friendly. The place is frighteningly clean. Though there are always new things to see, your old favorites are always there. You are always welcomed. There is a dependability about Disney. You know what you are getting, but it's not dull. It has the feeling of visiting a beloved relatives house (a really cool house with dumbo rides and people dressed as disney characters....)
It took me a while to figure it out...in fact I didn't really figure it out until I had a nightmare that I went to disney and the cast members were horribly unconcerned and rude, and everything was shabby and not working.
I swear you're my long-lost twin. I have these dreams all the time.
Disney has been a huge part of my life since very early childhood. My mom adores Disney and we were raised on a steady diet of Disney movies, music, books, characters and the occasional rare treat of a trip to DL. God, my sister and I so loved our little record player and all of our Disney records. Mom grew up loving the Mickey Mouse Club and all of the Walt Disney Presents shows. She longed to see DL. In addition to all of this, I inherited from her a desire to control my surroundings, to be where it's clean and safe and comfortable. I long for a haven in an insane and messy world.
Now, as an adult, I'm a very tense, busy person. I work two jobs, my husband works two jobs, we see each other at bedtime and on weekends. More than anything, we love to travel and spend time together. It really reminds us, in the hulabaloo of our lives, why we married and how much we like each other. My husband was likewise raised with a lot of Disney. He has a fabulous picture of himself and Pinocchio that is my absolute favorite. We were actually in DL at the same time in the same year as children, but, of course, never knew it.
My childhood coupled with my adulthood formed me as a ready-made Disney junkie. I have found that the only place I can relax is a Disney property. I feel so safe, so happy and so sheltered. They take care of me and my crazy food allergies, they take me from place to place without ever having to leave their perfectly-formed little world. I'm a tried and true DL fanatic, but WDW is a close second.
Now, don't get me wrong. I also love the excitement and adventure of world travel. I want to go EVERYWHERE before I die. I'm willing to sacrifice a certain sense of safety and predictability to experience all that the world has to offer. However, I can ALWAYS go to Disney and be satisfied and happy. The rest of the world can't offer that.
One more thing I have to add, to those of you who say a Disney park is never as great as when you're with children, I say pshaw. You should see the faces of my very reserved husband and all of our friends when we pass beneath the berm and see the castle. We can't ever help ourselves, we must take hands and skip.