We got to my moms house on Xmas Eve, with all family..aunts/uncles/cousins/grandparents etc.... this started back when my brother was born..he was the first grandchild, so everyone would get together at my parents, then go to the inlaws on xmas day.
This works great because then everyone is home christmas day to open presents with just immediate family.
Now with DH's parents divorced, DFIL comes over on xmas morning, usually AFTER they are done...but I can't make them wait!!!....
We do spend xmas day- at MIL's...usually we eat at 3pm or so, then open presents with that side then, the BILS, cousins etc..My family eats Christmas dinner at my aunts, next door to my mom around noon- but we dont go to that.
Luckily for both of us, all of our families are within 20 minutes of eachother...(cept for 2 uncles in Montana, and an Aunt in Texas)...but out of 9 kids- 6 of my mom's siblings are here..with all their kids too!
BIG PARTY!!
Brandy