There is so much wrongness in this post, and I could not possibly disagree more with just about everything you say here.
I know they always routine these threads with an "with all due respect" post . You may as well put after that phrase you an idiot cause you couldn't have possibly thought of the things I am about to tell in this post on your own .
I often say "with all due respect" and I do so to soften the delivery of a statement that conflicts with a deep seeded belief that someone has, whether it be opinion or misinterpretation of fact. It's not meant to make anyone feel stupid, but to suggest that although I disagree with them strongly, I don't hold any animosity towards them. For instance, with all due respect, I think you are out of line suggesting that we are holding back from calling people idiots. To that end, there is a difference between idiocy and ignorance. To suggest that one is an idiot is incredibly offensive. However, to suggest that someone is ignorant is not (to someone who knows the true meaning of the word). Ignorance suggests a lack of knowledge pertaining to a particular subject. The fact of the matter is that many posters on here are ignorant about DVC. It's important that they know what they don't know, but pointing that out can be touchy. That's another reason for using phrases such as "with all due respect".
At least that is the way it comes of in every one of these posts to me .
To be frank (is this better than "with all due respect") your posts meet a lot of resistance because they are frequently factually inaccurate or in defiance of logic. Nobody is calling you an idiot, and I am sorry if you feel that is the case. But I disagree with most of what you say, and the nature of these types of boards is to share opinions. I can flip it back on you and say that you disagree with much of what I say. That's fine. I don't take offense to it and I would hope that you don't either.
Maybe some people don't realize the real market exists to be honest that should be the extent you are looking out for people .
I think we'll agree to disagree on this one. If you're suggesting that we simply mention that resale exists and not provide any information on it, how it works, the pros and cons, what choices they have available or how securing a contract works, then I don't think you are being very helpful at all. Last I checked, I was not getting paid for my time or advice. But I've had many people thank me for my help, and even point out the money they have saved acting on information that I have provided. That makes me feel good, to have helped someone in that manner.
I don't think people need to be told interest cost extra money ,
I think they need to be told how much extra it costs, because nobody else is telling them that. How many people have you seen that just look at the monthly payment and are completely unaware of what the interest charges do to the true cost of ownership? I think if it were presented differently, such as "you can buy this contract now for $10,000 or you can pay for it over ten years for $18,000" I would wager that fewer people would finance.
I don't think they need to be told they can't get certin reservations if they don't have specific home resorts , I don't think they need to be told the basics of how the DVC system works ,
Honestly, why wouldn't you tell them these things? What do you stand to gain by not sharing this information? We've seen plenty of people who leave DVC sales presentations not having a clue as to how DVC actually works, because their "guide" was so busy spreading Pixie Dust that they didn't actually explain the nuts and bolts of the system. I don't blame them, really, as nuts and bolts are not flashy and they don't sell timeshares. But someone has to tell people these things, especially when they ask those very questions. To not share this information comes across as spiteful.
cause ill assume they had the decency to ask before they spent a large sum of money .
That's not a wise assumption to make.
To be honest it's not my job to worry about other people's decisions .
True, I guess. It's not your "job" and I don't think "worry" is the right word. I don't think it's my job to help people on these boards by answering questions and offering advice when appropriate. But I do think they benefit from it, and that is a good thing to do for others. At the end of the day, I don't worry about the decisions they make, because I can't control what others do and it doesn't directly impact me at all. But don't you think there is value in doing something nice for someone else, even if you stand to gain nothing?