We live in Huntersville, just north of Charlotte near Lake Norman. DD is an NC native. I've been here 18 years. Meet and greet sounds like a great idea to me!!
There is a group that meets at Concord Mills for pin trading. They aren't all DVCers of course, but all love Disney. I am on the list to be notified when they have there next meeting. I don't think they meet during the summer.
Myself, DH and DD9 have lived here in Mooresville for 4 years. I would also love a meet. My friends & neighbors dont quite share my disney enthusiasm. I dont know why????????