PLEASE do not the let the bus issue bother you!! We just got back from ASSp. We did "share" buses a few times, BUT it is not bad! Many of the more $$ resorts have several stops before heading out to the parks. We NEVER had any issue with this, it may take 5 min or less to stop at the others, sooo not a big deal!!
The food court is okay. Not much of a selection, pretty basic. We actually left ASSp and took a trip to POP for dinner one night. It's amazing at the difference. We stayed at POP last year, I must have forgot how BIG the food court area actually is, lot brighter too! HOWEVER ASSp is MUCH less crowded!! We could always find tons of empty tables, it was nice and clean too!!
The theming is good at sports too. My kids (2 boys and 1 girl) loved ASSp and all the icons. They really liked the big football field to play and run around! POP's themeing is cute, but I always wonder if the kids can recognize most of the stuff.
Before we went to POP last year I read that you do not need to book preferred as it small. NOT true. When we were there it was a 10 min walk through a parking lot to get to the main building. The parking lot was actually a short cut. It was bad!!
Overall, both resorts are nice and each has their own pros & cons. If I were you, I would look into ASMo. They are refurbing rooms right now, VERY Disney themes that all kids enjoy, and a cute pool!
Good Luck in your choice, no matter what have a great trip!!