I should probably have better explained the situation in my original post. I am not at all familiar with the nicer shoe brands. Unless I can find them on clearance for under $5 a pair they don't come home with me (or didn't). We simply have not had the money (the hospital has all of it

) So to us, Gap tennies were an upgrade from
Walmart ones. (If I could get them on clearance) It has been cheaper to sew the girl's sundresses and at least LOOK like we we live above the proverty level. So perhaps because we were so poor it has been more important to me that we all looked put together, well groomed, coordinated etc... (Do people really put athletic sandals with sundresses these days?!?)
Last year I'd have LOVED to just pop out and buy several different pairs of leather $25-$45 shoes for all three of my kids 3 times a year (they grow fast!). Perhaps they'd have actually liked wearing them more often too! Thankfully, we are not handing our paychecks over to the doctors as much this year and we can afford more, like a vacation and bit more expensive shoes. I read a lot of old posts looking for recommendations on here and so many people suggested Crocs I thought they deserved a google search. I don't like the look of the traditional ones (the ones I remember DID look like cheap plastic and ugly as sin) but the newer, strappy, sandal styles looked nice. I don't get out to shop and see things in real life much so how am I supposed to know they don't look as nice as they do online? To be honest, I'm still getting used to spending as much on shoes for all three as I do on two weeks of groceries. Do I think $5 shoes are good for my kids feet? Heck no! But it was better than no shoes at all. Now, I'm looking for a comfortable flip flop for around the pool and short trips and a comfortable sandal for the 4-5 hours we'll spend at a time in the parks. I have to get all 6 pairs for under $150 if I am to stay on budget.

(yep, still getting used to spending money!)
I would still like their shoes to be dressier vs athletic as we are not an athletic family and more money or not, if I am going to squeeze two trips to the world this year out of our budget they are going to have to match their current wardrobe
I do appreciate the recommendations you all have given. Very helpful to start me on my search. Maybe I'll schedule an evening out so I can see some of these shoes in person before finding a good deal on 6pm.com
As an aside, just because some of you can spend a mint on footwear every year doesn't mean everyone else can, sometime we just have to get the best we can afford at the time