I don't see why you have such a problem with characters, you dont have to have a photo etc with them, i dont get how they can ruin someone's holiday.
When they are at the detriment of theme such as in putting Mickey in BBWWS, or get in the way of other entertainment like the Lucky Nugget being a character buffet instead of a western themed saloon with cancan dancers and bandits. Or stop the horsedrawn street car for several years because of the toon train.
Or when they theme every attraction in the pipeline to characters instead of emersive attractions such as Phantom Manor and Pirates of the Caribbean.
Well frankly, it annoys me greatly. The characters have their place, and they are a part of the whole, but when it is all about the characters, then they have lost their way.
And it also a business issue. For decades I have been criticised about my love of Disney, that it is for kids only. Well it never used to be. But more and more is being skewed to them at the detriment of the rounded offering for all the family that inspired Walt to build
Disneyland.
Characters are great for you and your family. And I am happy for you. But what about in 10 - 15 years when your little one may not be as into it. What will be in it for you guys then? Or in 20-25 years, would she want to honeymoon there like people used to? If the emphasis is on characters at the detriment of everything else, then they are narrowing the market potential (or more importantly to me, the mission of the parks).
Let's put it another way. How would you feel if all of a sudden they ripped out parts of fantasyland to put in a Pulp Fiction (which is a Disney Property) themed restaurant? Or what is they made Auberge adult only? Or how about we pop a mega coaster down Main Street. Essentially there are simularities.
I like Ice Cream, but I don't want to it with every course. Do you see where I am coming from?
Bottom line - the Disney I grew up with inspired me to be who am today, and to learn many things that I have learnt. I am annoyed my children are not given the same chances.